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Let’s get it out of the way…
First of all...yes, women masturbate. Women watch porn. Let's just get that out of the way right now. And yes...it happens regularly. So if you're thinking "this is barely a challenge! Women don't understand the pain of blue balls!" just...stop thinking that. And have a conversation with an actual vagina-owner.
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My Goals and Expectations
To be honest, I didn't think this would be as difficult as it was. Actually, I hoped it might help me be more productive. See, I'm a regular practitioner of "procrasturbating"--the Urban Dictionary term for jacking off to avoid doing work. I figured if I couldn't jack off then I'd be forced to do work.
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Productivity Results
Yeah, that turned out not to work at all. As I said, I'm an incredibly weak-willed person. Instead of ringing Satan's doorbell I would just watch YouTube or something instead. Maybe I should be trying No-Phone November.
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04
Blue Tubes > Blue Balls
One thing I learned this month is that blue tubes are a THING. There were in fact times when I felt an almost-painful pressure within me which wanted release. So uhh, men, you can stop crying about the ~unique male pain~ you feel when your date doesn't want to give you a hand job. I have now felt it, and I would describe the discomfort as somewhere between needing to pee and pants that are a little tight.
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05
Hacking my Psychology
Weirdly, I had more of an urge to look at porn than usual. I think my brain's logic was "I can't just get off, so I'll just give myself a little taste by watching other people get off. Then it'll take the edge off my urges." It did work, kind of. Or maybe I just finally mastered Lady GaGa's patented "I can give myself an orgasm with my thoughts" and told myself it didn't count because I didn't really do anything.
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06
The Bedroom
One thing this month did do was give me and my partner a reason to experiment. Specifically, with edging. I mean it's No Nut November, not No Pleasure November! So we figured as long as I didn't finish it didn't count. And it was fun to let my partner be in control of whether I could finish or not.
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07
Did I Break?
Yeah, of course I broke. I'm only human, and in case I still haven't made it clear, I'm a human with literally zero self control. I had a few Ménages à moi. I couldn't help myself, okay? But it really was only 3 or 4, which is a heck of a lot less than usual. And, uhh, I won't pretend it wasn't extra stimulating when I knew I wasn't supposed to be doing it.
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Conclusions
Okay, I didn't gain the magical powers I was promised by those people who wanted me to join a cult. But I did get a little better at hands-free stimulation, gained a new bedroom skill, and found some new NSFW subreddits to look at. I would say these are all things you could do without no-nutting, but I'm still proud that I took this leap for womankind. You're welcome, all, for my courageous, intrepid dip into this yearly masculine ritual.
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