Messages between Grape_Jelly and Sweetie_Belle_


By Sweetie_Belle_ on Jun 20, 2014 at 6:06 AM

(You wanna know? I think you know, but you lost it a while ago)


By Grape_Jelly on Jun 20, 2014 at 5:30 AM

(How is this still a relevant way to pass the time o_o)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 13, 2014 at 5:30 AM

(Only to use if the 36 hours have passed)


By Grape_Jelly on May 13, 2014 at 5:29 AM

(Anti-Vaigra: for all your flaccid needs)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 9:45 AM

(Well, I'm no social expert, so maybe I'm not there right guy, and okay)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 9:45 AM

(That didn't help much o.o now I g2g)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 9:44 AM

(If they perform these actions, yes)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 9:42 AM

(So they'll get mad at me for no reason, and stay mad even after the older folks leave?)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 9:40 AM

(Well, there was once an experiment with ten monkeys. In the top of the cage were banannas. But when they tried to get then, they would get hosed, so they backed off. Every few days, one monkey was swapped for another, new monkey, and the others warned that monkey about the trap of the bananna, by saying that it's dangerous. After all monkeys were replaced, the new group didn't dare to go up there, but not knowing why)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 9:36 AM

(I suppose you'll tell me what that means?)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 9:35 AM

(Not directly. It also depends on the other side, those who do developed a grudge. It would be petty of them to plan that grudge for you on others, that would only recreate the monkey experiment with the banana on a pole.)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 9:32 AM

(I dunno, they seem like they want to stay for a while. And then when I try to make new friends will they call me an asshole? o_o)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 9:31 AM

(Maybe it's too late here with the current folks. But there will always come new ones. And lessons here can apply to other places as well.)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 9:28 AM

(Hmm... Alright. But isn't it a bit too late here? Everyone does kind of hate me)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 9:26 AM

(The best advice I can give is that you try to approach people a little more carefully, and ask an innocent question about why a char exists.)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 9:16 AM

(Yeah, sometimes)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 9:12 AM

(Not exactly. I theorie that with your hypersensitivity it would be quite difficult to make a good stand to rebel in public, especially if there's no reason to it. In your case, the screen helps to diminish the income of impulses to the brain so it can work properly, rather then it being a douchebag online for the sake of being a douchebag. Though, to be honest, sometimes you do seem to try to be a thorn in the side rather then helpful, or it comes out wrong due to the choice of words)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 9:06 AM

(So you're saying that I'm the equivalent of an internet troll?)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 9:04 AM

(You're 15 right? It's about the age of puberty, and pretty much everyone in that age period rebel against something in that time. But where and against what depends on a lot of social factors. Many of the YOLO youth with rebel more openly with friends in public places, while many internet trolls who do not share the guts to do that in real life will use a screen to protect themself.)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 9:00 AM

(Oh?)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 8:57 AM

(Yeah. Well, depending on what nature you developed. I'm trusting easily, maybe too easy. But maybe if I actively start to become sceptic, I will stay in there. My other idea may be more judgemental of your age group)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 8:54 AM

(To trust people?)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 8:52 AM

(That's because it's something that needs to slowly be eroded. It may be hard, but my theory is that you need to make a consious effort for a long period of time until it slowly becomes second nature)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 8:50 AM

(Yeah, but every time I try to it kicks back in a few months later and screws me over to no end.)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 8:48 AM

(So, also a distruftful nature? That can be a problem indeed, but not impossible to overcome)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 8:46 AM

(Also something about a thing where I always think people will turn on me so I try to get the "upper hand" on them first)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on May 1, 2014 at 8:45 AM

(I think I can have a certain understanding of that.)


By Grape_Jelly on May 1, 2014 at 8:44 AM

(Pretty much. I'm pretty hyperactive around people. But over the internet I can't see them so it makes it a bit better)


By Sweetie_Belle_ on Apr 24, 2014 at 8:40 AM

(See ya)


By Grape_Jelly on Apr 24, 2014 at 8:39 AM

(Sometimes. Gotta go)