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By Tempie on Dec 25, 2008 at 7:31 AM

Weather permitting I get to drive up and down the hills to mah dotters house and spend the day slobbering all ovar the worlds cutest grandchild. I didn't finish his blanket in time so it'll be a Happy Noo Year gift. I bought him RED sheets for his big boy bed. I've learned eons ago that for me , giving, is the best part of Christmas. Little kids are the most fun to shop and make stuff for. I made a pink blanket for my granddotter. I'll find out later if she liked it . She's one, of course she'll like it. All the different pink yarns. It's a party!

By Tempie on Dec 24, 2008 at 1:05 PM

Life is too short to connect urself with all the excrement that an unhappy marriage can excrete. Redundant? so's the constant barrage of excrement that comes from a bad union. Choose wisely. I chose unwisely too many times. I don't regret my children but if I had chosen wisely the first time our children would have had two happy parents their whole lives. Old people know stuff sometimes.

By Tempie on Dec 23, 2008 at 6:10 PM

Excellent! U r on the road to quick recovery. He'z da loozer on many levels. AHha failed the audition, Excellent!

By Tempie on Dec 23, 2008 at 5:17 PM

It might help to overcome the heart hurt if you line the man u thought he was with movie characters. I am IN LOVE with ... and it just so happens they look just like Orlando bloom or Will Smith or Cary Grant or Gary Cooper . I fall in love with the person they are playing... We all do and look how we follow the careers of the actors. Misplaced affection. Decide that's IT! and move on. Every time u think of him ~ MOVIE!!

By Tempie on Dec 22, 2008 at 5:27 PM

After Adam? nowhere. We are their better half. Get yourself the book " His Needs Her Needs (how to have an affair proof marriage) It lays out very simply the 5 basic needs of each sex and how they compliment one another. I tried to read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus and I couldn't continue on wth it 'cause it took too long and spent too many words being "cute". HN/HN explains Why they act like that why they think like that. I decided.. When God made Eve He took all that was Eve from Adam, in that rib, so there is nothing of Eve in Adam and THAT'S why we're so different.

By Tempie on Dec 22, 2008 at 9:59 AM

I think u will do quite well. u r sensitive and caring ( cat lover!?) it stands 2 reason. Men r logical and neeeed the heart we provide.

By Tempie on Dec 21, 2008 at 12:02 AM

warm milk is good too and amen to the prayer. g'nite

By Tempie on Dec 21, 2008 at 12:01 AM

I get it at Wal-Mart and u have to go to bed at a normal bedtime. at least 7 hours. Directions! read the directions... I kep forgetting that part.

By Tempie on Dec 21, 2008 at 12:00 AM

Excellent. I use Melatonin on those nites I can't sleep and I HAVE to get up early. It's a natural whatever your brain makes anyway and I don't know if it's addictive because as long as I've been using this product I've nevar HAD to have it just to HAVE it. make sense? I don't have to get up now so I won't be using it. 300 mgs is a good strength I bought some 500 and it's too strong.

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 11:55 PM

Well, I'll be prayin for the both of you to see things the rite way and that all will be well. How ever it wurks out.

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 11:36 PM

Hey, kittehs ar THEE best test. That and his financial record. Does he use algebra to balance his checkbook? then, whutz he hidin?

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 11:33 PM

And it might be he wuz using the argument to back off because ur so wunnerful and he's a chicken. Sometime the rite fellow will do just that before he calms down and sees past his fear to see u. I don't know 4 sure, I'm a hermit. I read lotza Christian romances and that's how a lot of them play out.

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 11:27 PM

If he likes goggies dats okay, I guess just not to the exclusion of kittehs

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 11:20 PM

there y'go. Trust your good sense and only let hormones have a teenie bit of say in the equasion. They can be loud and obnoxious and some fellows take advantage of that.

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 11:16 PM

Yeah, he was, and while we were'nt married very long it was the longest honeymoon. I highly recommend adopting a kitteh. If the fellow u bring home don't like catz WHAT A CLUE!!!

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 11:05 PM

Nah, it doesn't make u crazy, it makes u very sad ovar the time u wasted wit that fellow. The loss of the promise is what's heartbreaking. You stand before the Lord and promise Him and each other to love honor and cherish for the rest of your lives... So, trust God to bring the fellow that will be worth the wait and will honor the VOW. yeah, u hurt rite now but try and look on the brite side of all this. It's an opportunity to know urself better and be choosier ovar the company u keep.

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 10:58 PM

ouch. u got that rite. My late husband was thee best husband. He told me he loved me at least once a day, ate everything I cooked and said it was WONDERFUL (my children roll their eyes and snicker to this day) Oh there isn't enuff room here. Needless to say. No fellow I met since matches up or comes close to. God will bless u with just the rite fellow, so don't be in a hurry. Establish yourself, and the fellow will just add to the package, as u will add to his complete pkg. Like wrapping paper, tape and a pretty bow? yep

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 10:45 PM

U are so blessed to have learned this about him. UR SAFE!!

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 10:40 PM

I don't pray for him as much as I did at first. Life goes on, the pain lessens and ... All the platitudes really are true. Been there done that. And THAT kinda upsets me too because "this is MY wound, it's hurting ME right now and what you went through has it's scab/scar all built up so it's not fresh" Yes it hurts rite now so start the healing, get the scab.

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 10:33 PM

I thought we were going to marry. ( dis is long time ago) he stepped back and said no. I eventually got ovar it and doing whut I tol u is what worked the most. To this day, when I have a remember of him, I pray for him. "OH yeah, that guy" pray pray pary and I go on wit mah day.

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 10:27 PM

There's sommat wrong wit them then and u are going to be better 4 it. U'll always wonder what u did wrong,so consider that now you have the time and space they filled, open to be filled wit a new fren that will appriciate u. Like my profile says, I'm a Christian so my stock answer 4 anything is to pray 4 dem. Forgive them 4 hurting ur feelings and pray God's best 4 them and then u are free to go on wit ur life. Wurks 4 me.

By Tempie on Dec 20, 2008 at 10:02 PM

I rub mah fragrance into my hands before I start crocheting. That way, when they first get it, it smells like me but after the first wash it smells like home. I spoke to mah son who told me about Becca and her taste in shoes. She's one and has very definite tastes. The fuzzy pink blanket I made for her is perfect. yay.I hope it's the same shade of pink as the shoes she glommed onto at the store and wouldn't let her mother take to pay for them. I don't like wrastling wit the babie at the register. Itz embarrassin.

By Tempie on Dec 19, 2008 at 9:38 PM

Any time you finish a project it feels nice. I mostly give mah stuff away but the few things I've kept have nice memories. I don't use that one blanket any more 'cause It's fading som ever time I wash it. I made that on the long drives my late husband and I took moving around as much as we did. I've been a widow 19 years and This blanket is a lovely memory to hold onto.

By Tempie on Dec 19, 2008 at 8:08 PM

That's why I recommend crocheting. I'm a visual lerner and what little I kno was shown to me ages ago. It's a good calmer downer

By Tempie on Dec 19, 2008 at 7:10 PM

I don't knit on accounta I'd hafta count or keep track and I'd lose/drop stitches so I crochet. THEEE easiest and there's no dropped stitches and I just don't know how to do "patterns" u'd hafta count!!! NAO!!! I can watch t.v. and crochet. Course, all I can make are blankets, mufflers, dish cloths, long back scrubbin wash cloths... straight things. I use different yarns to make the piece different. Color,texture for bathing & dishes I use the cotton yarns. 2 easy. I'm sorta lazy.

By Tempie on Dec 19, 2008 at 4:24 PM

That's kinda one of the reasons I reeely want to do this. I have grown friends that still use the "blankies" their grammas made for them when they were three. or young. in there. For my other grandchildren I made blandets out of flannel and broadcloth. I didn't put batting in the "sandwich" just the two fabrics and they're very well used. Great drag around blankets. Just the right weight for year 'round dragging. The flannel was solid and the broadcloth had some wild and colorfully fun patterns.

By Tempie on Dec 19, 2008 at 7:09 AM

Being snowed in has widen my ...um since all I do iz sit here and fool with this computer. Today tho. I'm going to focus on getting my grandsons blanket crocheted so I can have it ready BEFORE Christmas. He's 3 and he likes BLUE!!! It wuz fun letting him choose the yarn he wanted. I'd hold up some coordinating/complementary color yarn and just the look in his eyes when it wasn't blue. what a cutie. He very politely said no to the non- blue. When I had cats I couldn't crochet.

By Tempie on Dec 18, 2008 at 5:37 PM

Uh OH. We could get a Mutual Admiration Society started and get hurted patten each others backs. Thanx. I think urs are purty funni too. It's like a drug! I get lol and just keep looking for more so I neber stop to tell the capshun maker how good dey are. Thanx

By Tempie on Dec 14, 2008 at 8:14 PM

If we don visit again, Have a very merrie Christmas... CeilingCatmas and a happie noo year. 2009 iz gonna b fine

By Tempie on Dec 14, 2008 at 8:05 PM

Yeppers, kittehs r de best. That's why we're here, huh?