By
tookat
on Sep 17, 2012
at 5:43 AM
Yet and will. lol.....I "hit" on something during a conversation on fbork today...and I have no idea how many folks will see it here, but....a seed of an idea, could be planted....and it might grow, without someone realizing it....and, Like I did, someone might grow forward, and have a better sort of life, because it will not be ruled as much by the "bad stuff". I remember, back when I was more or less overwhelmed either by anger or despair, how one "just let something go." I used to ask folks, how do you something like that, if you have no idea of how to successfully do it. Folks just shook their heads and said "you just do". I think, one day I just stumbled on letting something go....and had an epiphany. You do "just" let go. You choose to end the inner arguments, because they do not make you feel well, and you move on. It is sort of like a "brick moving" puzzle I just finished. it was one of the harder sorts of its type...the bricks only move in the horizontal or they only move in the vertical...no brick can do both....and many were unequal in length. I couldn't "logic" the sequence of steps, no matter how I tried, but got to a place from just dicking around, and felt as if I was close. I had to repeat the puzzle so many times, to get to where I could get to the new "stuck place" by design. Again, I reset the puzzle and mucked about. Reset, mucked about, etc, and suddenly, I saw the steps I needed. Can I replicate that? No, not yet, but...here is the difference between someone going forward, and someone mired in their goo. I learned to qualify everything I said or did, in a positive manner. I added "yet" or will, or can or could to my repetoire of words....NLP....Neuro-Linguistic Programming.....I always allow my mind to know, I have room to grow forward when I am ready.
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