In the world of cruel dating stories and messy relationships, we can't blame our girlies for developing an attitude when the guy comes and approaches her at the bar, now can we? The struggle to surpass the 'talking' phase to eventually dating has become nearly improbable. Relationships - whether they began as friendships or as a random hookup one night - are like a stream of games. It takes a long time before you get to know the person long enough to give in and trust them and finally be authentic around each other.
You'll notice as time goes on that you start to develop a relationship beyond the games. But many of us read very far into the interactions with this person, and can often misread the situation entirely. It has become "safer" to assume the person wants nothing from you other than a hookup. But you really can tell a lot from a look, and sometimes those looks are signs of connection.
For all of the people who have lost faith in dating and relationships, remember that connection isn't always immediate and its normal for the road to be long, slow and bumpy. I know it seems unbelievable, but trust your gut!
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