'It would be very uncomfortable to work here if you don't attend': Boss forces teachers to share beds during 'mandatory' unpaid work retreat, two strong teachers refuse to attend

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    r/antiwork u/Kingofcryo • 12h Wife was told she had to go on a work retreat. Mandatory but unpaid. She refused. Wait for the punchline! The owner of the school she worked at got very indignant when my wife asked if she would be paid for this mandatory weekend trip.
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    The boss told her she was expected to attend or it would be "very uncomfortable to work here if you don't attend". The rest of the team crumbled under the pressure and 26 of the 28 employees decided to voluntarily agree to attend. When they arrived the owner had them SHARING ROOMS! And here comes the best part - each room only had ONE BED!
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    This expected her employees to share beds. Everyone was bitter about it and spent the whole time complaining to each other but they were all terrified to bring it up with the boss. Soon thereafter she was shunned by her boss and the rest of the employees. They said she wasn't a team player. right she wasn't!
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    Edit - This happened at a Montessori school. The teachers mostly have a very difficult to obtain certification and there are only a few Montessori schools in the area. The assistant's other teachers are very poorly paid and were unwilling to challenge the boss. The owner of the school was known for being very egotistical and demanding. Most of these women have been broken down by her after years of working under her.
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    Just_aRainy Day • 12h Does your wife work for a cult? I can't imagine why 26 other people would willing share a bed with a roommate otherwise. So crazy! Reply 5.8k
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    Kingofcryo OP. 12h Nobody had any idea they were expected to share beds until they arrived. The retreat was about 90 minutes away from home and the weaklings all just went along with this ... 2.8k
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    Arkayb33 11h ● Only 90 minutes? Eff that, I would gone back home. Ain't no way in I'm sharing a room, let alone A BED, with any of my coworkers. 42.9k ...
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    AWholeNewFattitude 12h ● "You're not a team player!" "Yeah and I also didn't have to sleep with Dave..." Reply 1.7k ...
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    Kingofcryo OP • 12h I should have mentioned the retreat was all female teachers. The only man in the group was the other person who refused to go. He wasn't threatened about it. Even a sociopath like the owner of the school knew that making a man and woman share a bed would be over the line. 1.3k
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    Fun_Organization3857 11h Oh look.. a discrimination. ● ... 1.1k
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    Party-Objective9466 - 11h Labor dept might want to hear about this Reply ... 4 1.1k ↓
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    Kingofcryo OP. 11h I agree 100% My wife isn't as confrontational as I am. She just quit the job and wasn't willing to stir the pot. When she sees her old coworkers they always mention they should have left when she did. 4816
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    Beginning Zucchini8. 11h I work for a company that expects us to share rooms every work trip. I always refuse and charge my individual room to the company card. I'm not sharing a bedroom with coworkers. Ever. Reply 4410
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    Prior_Initial_2675. 11h She wasn't a brainless follower like the rest, good for her. ... Kingofcryo OP. 11h I agree. I got a good one! Reply 158 480
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    1maxwedge426. 10h Sounds like 26 sexual harassment lawsuits if you play your cards right... Reply 分 125 凸 ...
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    Quaffiget 11h ● Bucket of crabs mentality. You must suffer in the bucket with the rest of us. Reply 259 ...
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    Fixerguy415 11h I'm with your wife. If it's "mandatory" then I'm being PAID, and I have a single room paid for by the company along with all meals, expenses, and travel costs. Me to the last Turdwookie who tried to run the TeAm PlAyEr Gaslit Unicorn Smoke up my skirts: Well, there boss.. see it's like this: In a REAL team what happens is EVERYONE gets their needs taken care of because that's how you keep a team together. This here ain't a team of any sort though, because the ONLY people getting
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    Kingofcryo OP • 11h I once had a manager tell my project coordinator that I would be out of town next week. He didn't bother telling me that he had booked me for an out of town training until 4 days before the class began. I explained that I had plans with family who were coming into town. He scoffed and said, "Well why didn't you mention it until now?" Because I work here. You don't own me. I will be here for my regular shifts and then I will be going home to MY LIFE! You have no right to expec
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    OR_steelheader • 11h Since when can you mandate someone to work and not pay them? I'm no lawyer, but that sounds sketchy. ... Reply 123
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    Kingofcryo OP. 11h It's totally illegal. : 84
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    JCButtBuddy. 11h I bet the owner had their own bed. Lehigh Ace06-9h ... I bet the owner didn't have to go Reply ... 40 ↑ 18

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