'Isn't it courtesy?': Manager demands resigning employee give more than 3 weeks notice, she decides to give 0

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  • two women sit chatting in an office with a laptop beside them on a desk
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  • My boss said 3 weeks notice wasn’t enough, so now they’re not getting any notice.

    A little background: I've been working for this company full time since May 2024, as part of an office staff for a small, family-owned swim school. I've been promoted twice on account of my work ethic and not being problematic. Since I've started, we've fired around (5) office staff members and had another 5 quit. The supervisors have stayed the same, but out of all the "regular" office staff, I've been here the longest.
  • I started school FT, and I became unavailable in April for my regular shifts. I really like this place, and I knew it'd be difficult to find another job, so I thought I'd kill two birds with one stone by giving my three weeks notice. Since this place doesn't employ part time office staff, I figured I would find another job for those 3 days I am available + after school.
  • The company is family owned, so I first called one of the owners (my boss) to tell her over the phone before sending out an email. I told her I was very much appreciative of working there, but due to school I'd have to quit to find another job to fit my schedule. This was basically the conversation:
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  • an empty internal office with chair, desk, and bookshelf
  • Me: "Thank you so much, but as of today I will be putting my three weeks notice. Again, thank you for allowing me to work here. I really like the staff and the job, but I am going to start school in May." Her: "Aw really? When we hired you, we asked you if you were going to school and you said no."
  • Her: "Yes, minimum." Me: "Okay, but I'm giving you three weeks." At that point she sighed & then asked me to send her a group-chat about my schedule, to see if they could work around it. So since May 2025, I've been working part-time. It hasn't really been working out and I already got hired at another place so...
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  • Today's my last day, I'm sending my letter of resignation once I clock out, and leaving my keys in the safe.
  • a woman smiles as she walks through an office, holding a box of belongings
  • sparksgirl1223 When I got pushback about how much notice I gave (coupled with the way said pushback was worded), I stopped showing up all together. Notice is a courtesy that has been instilled in us. That same job wouldn't give you much, if any, notice if they were laying you off or firing you.
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  • gobblegobblechumps Once had a manager tell me that two weeks notice in corporate america meant 14 business days
  • PaintOk3719 Good. Don't let them abuse you.
  • Repulsive-Rain-835 How much notice did they give the 5 they fired? GET F'ed
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  • VivianDiane Boss fumbled your generous 3-week notice by calling it insufficient. So you corrected it to 0 weeks. Problem solved.
  • Weird Squirrel_8382 "in two weeks y'all gon notice I ain't here."
  • MemeHermetic I was told once when I gave my notice that my boss was a little disappointed because I didn't give a full 2 weeks notice. I gave 1 day short of 2 weeks. So I looked him in the eye and asked if he were letting me go, would I get 2 weeks notice? So this seems like quite the courtesy on my part. It was easy to throw at him because he was the primary reason I decided to leave.
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  • curvydisobedience88 It's a courtesy, not mandatory to give a 2- week (or any) notice. My last 2 jobs | typed up my resignation and gave them 2 weeks notice and immediately upon giving them the resignation I was told "ok, we accept your resignation effective immediately" packed my shit and told to leave my badge and keys. So from here on out I will never give a notice.

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