By AfriCat on Sep 17, 2009 at 10:00 AM
Ohai! Thanks for accepting my friend request.
By Thecat on Sep 11, 2009 at 8:08 AM
HI SJB Sounds like U has a sensible. I can relax a bit then. luv TheCat *kitteh kisses & hugs*
By Thecat on Sep 11, 2009 at 5:13 AM
Hi SJB My daddy does has a shotgun :) I marry before I moves. Sometimes is not he who weakens, so be cautious of U too. If u is living together ppl always thinks U is doing it. So that is why I advises caution. I has three male room mates and nothing is happening but ppl always assume we is orging. Is ridiculous I is the mommy Cat but some ppl has the dirty minds or they would be behaving inappropritely, so they thinks everybody is. So thinks carefully about U choices. I is just concerned fur U. I is mommy cat so I has seen it all and learned frum most of it. I still likes to eat my dessert first :) luv TheCat * kitteh kisses & hugs*
By nearsgirl on Sep 9, 2009 at 3:11 PM
^_^ you promise to tell me how it goes at your wedding?
By nearsgirl on Sep 9, 2009 at 2:01 PM
oh good for you!^_^*danceing areound you*
By Thecat on Sep 9, 2009 at 9:42 AM
and started milking the cows through the fe3nce again. The owner of the cows started watch them day & nite. He caught the other man milking the cows through the fence and asked why he was milking the cows. the man replied "why pay for milk when U can milk the cow for free" I know is old fashion but still applies today. Plz to value you self highly. luv TheCat *hugs & kisses & butting out now*
By Thecat on Sep 9, 2009 at 9:38 AM
Dear SJB Moving in is like commiting to being in the role of wife without the legal protection or respect. Does U live at home now? Paying half the expenses is tough and if U is living together he is under no obligation to date U any more. Did You mommy tell you the story about the cow? "Once there was a man who had nice cows that gave lots of milk. The cows lived in a green field of sweet grass and the man who owned them fed them grain in the evening and milked therm twice a day. He worried over the cows and took good care of them. There was a second man living near by, he was always looking fur ways to get things for free. He passed by the cows in the field, and he would often stop and milk the cow closest to the fence. Then one day the man who liked things for free went away for a while to find work. The man who owned the cows noticed that his cows were giving more milk and tried to find out why. Nothing was different in feed or health. Then the man who liked free things came back a
By Thecat on Sep 9, 2009 at 7:57 AM
A year is not very long. U planning long engagment? Is good to really know the purrson U plans to spend U life with. I has a happy U gets along so well. U deserve a happy loving life. Luv TheCat *kitteh kisses & hugs*
By Thecat on Sep 9, 2009 at 6:52 AM
Plz do. Marriage is a challemge but if U goes into it totally commited to the marriage & each other, it will last. Maybe consider a marriage class or counciling with U religious leader. Knowing how to deal with new things makes success more likely. Luv TheCat *kitteh kisses & hugs*
By Thecat on Sep 9, 2009 at 6:42 AM
Hi SJB I recommend the big wedding because after a couple of years will be settled and not able to do the big wedding. I say commit to forever or just be friends with benefits. luv TheCat *do or do not there is no trial marriages*
By Thecat on Sep 9, 2009 at 6:36 AM
Hi SJB Is excited fur U! Better start planning though, good venues & cakes need to be booked well aheads. Luv TheCat *oh and the dressings too*
By Thecat on Sep 9, 2009 at 4:31 AM
hi SBJ Congrats on U engagement! I has a happy fur U. When is the wedding? What colors is U choosing fur the wedding? U must be so excited. What does the ring look like? luv TheCat *kitteh kisses & hugs*
By nearsgirl on Sep 8, 2009 at 2:05 PM
yeah schools going good..^_^ how r u doing?
By Thecat on Sep 8, 2009 at 8:13 AM
Hi SJB, Weekends is good, but if we has too many days off there will be not enough monies fur the gushie food & toys. I hope U has the great week. Luv TheCat *kitteh kisses & hugs*
By Thecat on Sep 5, 2009 at 5:47 PM
Hi SJB I found that school was boring but has to be endured. By the time I graduated University I was determined to improve the system. Some success but got to the point where the restrictions was so ridiculous that I had to find other area to enhance. I sorry that u does not have young active brilliant minds to inspire. How is U weekend going? Luv TheCat *kitteh kisses & hugs*
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