"I was best friends with the woman, literally, we did everything together. I wasn’t invited to the wedding because I was overweight and her mother thought that would limit bridesmaid dress choices and throw the wedding photos ‘off’".
"My ex 'best friend' dictated the exact dress we were to all have, but we had to pay for it. No substitutes. It was over $1000."
"Her parents gave her a $20,000 budget and she ended up spending $100k and demanding they pay for it- they took out a loan they are still paying off"
"She tried to make me and another bridesmaid walk down her outdoor, uneven, tulle-covered aisle WITHOUT GLASSES. She threw a near-hysterics fit because she was convinced that we would "ruin the aesthetic of her wedding".
"Between the time I agreed to be a bridesmaid and a couple of months before the wedding I lost some weight. She got super pissed at me because she wanted to be the skinny one on the stage and threw me out of the wedding party."
"Day of the wedding, she informs me I need to dye my hair (and pay for it myself), because my hair color is too similar to hers and it would be distracting. “There aren’t enough red heads so I was thinking you could be a red head.”
"Her bachelorette party was the same weekend as my birthday. We weren’t allowed to do anything for my birthday at all on the trip. Not even mention it."
"She wouldn’t let our friend who was on chemo to sit down after they all walked down the isle."
"Overheard the bride drunkenly tell a mutual friend at her wedding day that if she could do it all over again, she wouldn’t have had me in her bridal party. I was the Maid of Honor. "
"The bride has recently asked me if I would mind not wearing any makeup because only the maid of honor and her really wear makeup."
"She held 3 separate bridal showers and expected her bridesmaids to show up to every single one with a gift."
"I was a bridesmaid at my father and step mother's wedding when I was 16. They spent 8 months before the wedding trying to bully me into losing weight for the wedding pictures."