Women Reveal The Best Flirting Techniques Which Actually Worked On Them

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Aug 1, 2021 1:00 PM EDT

Do not be fooled by movies and TV, flirting is not always easy. There are so many factors that need to be in line in order for a flirting attempt to be successful. Firstly, they have to know you're flirting. Secondly, they have to want you to flirt with them. Thirdly, you have to sum up some serious finesse.

Maybe it sounds easy when written out in three steps, but it's definitely not something that comes naturally to everyone. That's why it is so impressive when someone actually accomplishes a clever flirting attempt. It's definitely a roller-coaster, you have to shoot your shot, but also read the room. Either way, be careful, It's a crazy world out there.

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    Product - r/AskReddit u/hungary70 • 15h 56 47 3 32 1 45 Girls of Reddit, what was the best flirting technique someone did to you? 38.5k 7.8k T, Share
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    Reddit user u/hungary70 was the one to ask women to share which was the best flirting technique someone once used on them. This thread could be used to help anyone looking for some flirting inspo. It's surprisingly wholesome too.

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    Font - Razzmatazz12345 • 11h O O 2 Awards "Hey do you want to help me throw fruit at my friends?" - 16 year old boy at summer camp, holding a bunch of oranges, who wanted to meet me. I was also 16 at the time. 6 Reply 1 3.1k 3 ...
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    This is a very unique technique. Might not work if you're not a child, but I think the major idea behind this is to just be yourself. There is no need to pretend you're younger or older, if they like you, it'll be for who you are.

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    Font - hecata678 · 9h 3 2 Awards Not me but my mum. My mum and dad were set up by a friend of theirs. My mum is completely deaf, upon being told this before he met her my dad went out and learnt as much sign language as he could before he met her.... my mum doesn't know sign language... adorable and hilarious G Reply 1 5.5k ...
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    Rectangle - janeosb · 10h 2 Awards Told me at a Halloween party that he had his eye on me. Proceeded to hand me a squishy eyeball G Reply 4 4.6k 3
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    Font - Constantlearner01 • 10h 6 Awards We met at a Halloween house party and when I was going to leave he walked me to the room with all the coats which also happened to be a kids room and he asked me "what color crayon would you like to write your phone number with?" | married him. Celebrated 20 years. G Reply 1 5.7k 3 ...
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    Font - flamboyanza • 7h 8 Awards I started dating the university's lone wolf and was extremely surprised to find how incorrigible a flirt he was. But he didn't speak my native language, he was not from my state and my parents wouldn't have approved of our relationship. When I told him I didn't want to lead him on, he said we would try our best and if it didn't work out he would take full responsibility for his broken heart and that I need not feel pressured. The feeling of liberation I felt cinc
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    Font - DeathChicken54 · 12h 1 Award Was riding home with the friends group back in 2008. We stopped to drop off the one guy, and I got out to stretch. I mentioned that the stars were so much more visible up there in the mountains and he said, "Yeah, they're really pretty. Wish I had someone to watch em with." I'm a sucker for corny guys. We got married the next year and are celebrating 12 years this June. 6 Reply 1 2.9k 3
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    Font - ceerz • 7h 3 Awards I like sunsets - they're kind of my thing. I photograph them, have sold calendars about them. I just like sunsets. Anyway... I was participating in a medical study, and we were sequestered to our room for 14 days. The guy I liked would send me pictures of the sunset each night, because he didn't want me to miss any. 6 Reply 1 2.8k 3 ... 14 more replies
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    Font - aes7288 · 8h 3 Awards I once had a guy walk up to me at a bar and said, "hello, my name is Rob and l'll be hitting on you tonight; what can I get you to drink". Silly, playful, and direct. We dated for about eight months. G Reply 1 6.9k 3 ...
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    Font - MotoZed · 7h 15 Awards A guy I had met and liked walked me home one night (but was hesitant to be involved further once I found out he was much younger). Early the next evening he went to the back door of my house and left a note with a bottle of wine, then knocked the door and left. When I opened the door the note said "if you would like someone to share the bottle with, open the front door. If not, enjoy it alone. (Name) x" It was such a surprise and a kind gesture that I opened the doo
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    Font - SufficientCow4• 13h 3 3 Awards Told me he like to draw and asked for my number so he could send me some examples. Then he freehanded a picture of a moose for me. 6 Reply 4 15.5k 3
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    Font - JawlsStronk• 8h My first boyfriend came into the store where I was working and just straight up told me he had seen me through the window and needed to run home to clean up/put on something nice so he could come back and ask me on a date. It was super endearing :) 6 Reply 4 1.9k 5 more replies
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    Font - cleanandcozy • 12h S 1 Award In college, my best friend was this guy that I had a flirty friendship with, but we were both dating other people. We lived in the same buildings as each other freshman - junior year, and spent a lot of time together but again, we were with other рeople. Freshman year we were watching a movie together and this couple had an epic kiss in the rain, and I offhandedly mentioned I thought it was so romantic. Senior year rolls around and we're both finally single. W
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    Rectangle - demsdabreakskid • 10h 31 Awards A guy told me that he liked my shoes and asked where l'd gotten them. We were in a bowling alley. 6 Reply 4 38.1k 3 ...
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    Font - pearlie_girl · 12h 2 Awards The first week dating my now-husband, we climbed a tree together and sat in it for an hour, getting to know each other and making each other laugh. Be genuine. You'll be happiest when someone likes you for how you are. Listen carefully and show you are paying attention goes a long way. 4 362 3 G Reply ... 5 more replies
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    Font - fuckthatfrog • 12h 5 Awards it was my first day in middle school and this kid asked to see my planner, i handed it to him and he flipped to the contact section and left me his name and number. i'll never forget how smooth he was 6 Reply 4 27.6k 3
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