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Entitled Woman Seethes Over Male Best Friend Spending More Time With GF, Demands To Be His Priority

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    Font - Font - r/AmltheAsshole Posted by u, • 12h AITA for acting like this towards my best friend and his girlfriend? My best friend of 5 years got a girlfriend last year and he's been claiming he's in love with her. After he started dating her he started neglecting our friendship and I confronted him about it. When I did he said he's not neglecting me he's just enforcing boundaries because we can't be together 24/7,sleep together or go on dates. I sucked it up but I was bitter that a girl he ju

    OP sounds a little bit PB and Jelly. 

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    Font - Font - Yesterday was my birthday and I am planning to have my party tomorrow night with my close friends. When I invited my best friend he let me know he couldn't make it since l'm telling him last minute and if I told him earlier he'd make time to come. When I asked why he couldn't make it he said that his family and his girlfriends family planned to meet each other and it was on the day l'd plan my party. He didn't know I'd have my party on Sunday when he planned for the families to mee

    Maybe instead of complaining about this dude's commitment to other plans, she should have just planned and notified him of the party in advance. 

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    Font - Font - This morning I video chatted him and asked to see his gf as well as I told them I had to make an announcement. When his gf came on the call I started telling him he's a simp and he forgot his best friend over her and that he'll regret treating me like that after she dumps him. Said l'll always be here with open arms to support him but he shouldn't prioritise her over me regardless. His girlfriend started screaming at me telling me to stay in my lane and he defended her, he said I'm
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    Font - Sky - After that I texted the boys' group chat letting them know what happened and they told me I acted like TA since I overstepped. AITA? I don't think I am. |
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    Font - Font - Edit :I am a woman, 20 years old for people thinking I'm a man. Also I don't care if he dates. I just don't want his attention to be on another woman rather than me. I've known him and supported him all these years. I'll be here after he dumps her or she dumps him. I'll be here always before and after any other woman. I'll support him, be his shoulder to cry on. No other woman would support him and know him as well as I do. And it's hurtful he won't see that. I don't want to date h
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    Font - Human body - iiconicvirgo · 17h I don't want to date him but I want to be treated like a gf
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    Font - Human body - Orangutanion · 15h She had five years to ask him out like a normal person. They would have dated, broken 'dn remained friends, he'd eventually get the new gf, she'd have closure, and this shitshow wouldn't be happening.
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    Font - Human body - Jrook · 8h She says the guy told her they're not allowed to be together 24/7 sleep together or go on dates anymore, so it sounds like they weren't just friends. If he's saying no more dates, that implies they were dating, right?
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    Font - Font - 5am5ep1ol · 4h No, no, no. This is a bad case of her probably taking advantage of his feelings for her. I guarantee you he was infatuated with her, and she took the opportunity to get a pet boyfriend "best friend." They "slept together" and went on "dates" meaning they had sleepovers and ate dinner together and she went to him with boy problems and treated him like a "boyfriend" because she got emotional satisfaction out of having someone that was always going to be there because h
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    Font - PaladinCain · 18h Jesus this is some full blown insanity
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    Mammal - ftrade44456 · 6h Yeah sounds like they had some messed up boundaries. I have seen guys be like "oh no, we're not together, we just spend all of our time together, f'ck, go out on dates, even live together but we're not together" just so that he has the option of finding someone 'better' when he feels like it without really breaking up with her because they "weren't together". And then he can go back to her when his relationship ends
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    Font - OneNightDave · 16h "Hey, I want to be his cool platonic cockblocking gf with none of the benefits of the real one in his life."

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