Woman Goes Super Incognito, Going as Far as Chopping Her Hair Off, to Catch Her Cheating Boyfriend

Once a cheater, always a cheater. The worst part about getting cheated on isn't the fact that you got cheated on, though that doesn't feel good either. It's the fact that now you are definitely going to develop some sort of trust issue with your next partner. That level of trauma is sure to stick and you're going to feel crazy at times, constantly in fear that whoever you're with is actually cheating on you. The worst is when you're trying to work through those trust issues, but you let the trauma steer for a minutes and you were actually right, fueling that trauma… It's just an endless cycle when it comes to cheaters. 

TikToker @lolash9720 recently shared a story of her trust issues getting more reinforced by her cheater boyfriend. 

One night he told her he was going out with his friends dancing. Just him and his friends. It just so happened that all of his friends are attractive women… This TikToker was already nursing some trust issues from previous relationships, so was instantly suspicious. She tried to not let her pass grab a hold of her however. That was until he stopped sharing his location with her…

After that she couldn't stand the itching suspicion that he was going out to cheat on her. So she decided to go into ultra spy mode. She cut off her long locks and sported a bob, she put on makeup and a nice outfit and made her merry way to the dance spot he was at. When she got there, she was trying her hardest to keep a low profile. She didn't want her boyfriend to see her for many reasons: For one, just in case she was wrong, she could quickly slink away unnoticed and no harm not foul. And two, because if he was cheating, she wanted to catch him redhanded. Unfortunately, it ended up being the latter.  

As she sneakily perused the club, she spotted him on the dance floor. Surrounded by women… She slowly approached him to get a closer look. Soon she was right next to him, and before he could see her face, she turned her back to him. In a heartbreaking move, he started dancing with her, touching her hair, telling her how gorgeous she was, etc. etc. Her heart was shattering. She says it felt like she was “falling in love with him all over again” while he was dancing with her, but also holding back tears realizing he had no idea it was her, so he was trying to cheat…

When she turned around to reveal who she truly was, he was shocked. He instantly started gaslighting her and getting upset with her. But the damage was done. She may have had to take drastic measures to catch him being unfaithful, but that didn't negate the fact that he was being unfaithful…

“Element of surprise tonight 😂”

“Ladies, trust me, it's not fun being right all the time”

(Watch all the videos about it here.)

Now that she is newly single, she is trying her hardest to get over him. She has embraced her new short hair look and is aiming to have a #hotgirlhalloween. Since she says it's too late to catch hot girl summer, she's definitely planning on having a hot girl halloween.