Woman Calls Out Lazy Brother-In-Law For 10 Minutes Straight

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    Font - Posted by u/tammyloren-76 21 hours ago 3240 30 51 AITA For Calling My BIL Out For His Weaponized Incompetence And Calling Him Pathetic At Dinner? Not the Ae I (F 24) have a sister (F 32) who has a husband (M 38) who is the poster child of weaponized incompetence. They have 4 kids (F10, M8, M5, F3) and she's pregnant. My sister works a full time job (40+ hours a week, cleans her entire house, cooks, takes care of all her children without him doing ANYTHING. It is seriously mind blowing tha
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    Font - wakes up at like 4 am, cooks breakfast, does chores, gets all of her kids ready for school, takes them all to school and daycare and all he does is stay home and work and when his kids get home (after my sister picks them up of course) he will play with them for a little and play video games until he falls asleep. she actually makes MORE than him! My fiancé (M 26) and i had to stay with them for 6 weeks while our home was being renovated and since we both wfh, we helped her and it is AMAZ
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    Font - literally only acknowledges he is a parent when his family is around, then he is a god fearing, hard working, father of 5. he is the one that wanted more kids, she wanted to stop after her last baby but he "needed more boys". I am seriously concerned not only for her, but her kids as well because now her oldest is seeing what's happening and trying to help but my sister is prideful and refuses to let her child do anything.
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    Font - Me and this man have never gotten along. He's been acting like this since their 8 year old was born. I've tried talking to her about leaving but she doesn't want her kids to grow up in a broken home, and unfortunately her experience with our parents divorce was completely different than mine so she doesn't understand that a divorce would benefit her kids here because she thinks they need their mom and dad together.
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    Rectangle - involuntary_cynic · 21h e Assk Enthusiast [8] his mom is angry at him and is moving in with them to help her out Aaand it all becomes clear..! NTA
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    Font - RattyHandwriting - 21h NTA. Text him back with "Truth hurts, doesn't it, big man?"
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    Font - Snarkandtea4me · 21h NTA.... Someone is just pissy because he is being forced to put on his big boys undies.
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    Font - Beginning-Ice-1005 - 21h Partassipant [2] NTA. Not only did you speak the truth to a guy with learned helplessness, you also seem to have gotten some positive help for your sister. Seriously, if he's that bad, he deserves to be a laughingstock. Maybe that will bring some more positive change, whether it's his finally helping, or your sister leaving him.
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    Font - Heraonolympia123 · 21h Partassipant [2] NTA; you sister and her MIL saw it as a true reflection of his behaviour and I hope he is embarrassed enough to pull his weight going forward. Little aside tho- your sister may not want the children to help but she should let them and even encourage them because otherwise she will raise 5 more of your BIL
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    Font - rock-dancer · 21h Assk Aficionado [17] NTA Sounds like he didn't like hearing the truth, especially if his mom is moving in to help out. Sounds like you might have catalyzed some changes at least.

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