Neglectful Husband Forgets To Change Baby For 4 Hours And Has The Audacity To Say Wife Is Being Unfair

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    Font - AITA for how I reacted after I discovered my husband left our daughter in dirty diaper for 4hrs?
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    Font - My husband (35m) and I (32m) been married for 3 years. We have a toddler and an infant. The problem is that he's helpless, there I said it. He doesn't have a job, spends his entire day on his phone or watching tv or playing on his latest console (that I bought him with my money) or just 'chilling'
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    Font - on the couch eating "couch snacks". He doesn't cook (doesn't know how) And when I ask if he could help tidy up the house he be like "why? We havin' guests over?". he does help but it's the absolute bare minimum. For example he'd unload the dishwasher or take the trash out then go back to the couch while I cook, clean, get up with the baby. I tried
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    Font - taming/motivating him by offering him favorite snaks or drinks or buy something nice to get him to start helping more but it's always the couch he goes back to. Then if I dare criticize his behavior he'd go silent for long time (2-3weeks) I hate it. I also suggested jobs
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    Font - for him so he could help since I pay for everything. he'd get excited then misses the job interview every.single.time!!! It all came to head days ago when I went home and found that our 2 year old (not potty trained) was left in dirty diaper for 4hrs even though her dad was home but he was right there on the couch snoozing
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    Font - !/!. When he said he planned to change the diaper but until after his nap it felt like a switch that got turned inside me. I. ROYALLY. LOST. IT on him. First I yelled at him to get up and he did then I did the following: A. Had him clean up everything: the floor, the surfaces, the messy rooms, the messy bathroom, fix the broken lamps, do the dishes, take the trash out, pick up the toys and food leftovers all over the place then vaccum.
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    Font - B. I moved the couch to the basement, confiscated his console, cancelled channel subscribtions, turned wifi off and changed the password and took his "couch snacks". He watched while I did all that and in dismay he waved with the duster in his hand yelling this is abuse and he won't take it. I told him he had no right to talk about abuse after leaving our daughter in her dirty diaper while he..naped. He completed all
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    Font - tasks I gave him but still argued that wasn't "cool" that I thought it was okay to punish him and treat him like a dog. I refused to discuss it and said this is how it's gonna be from now on. he then went to stay with a friend, turned his location off and sent a text guilting me for how I treated him over a simple mistake. AITA.
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    Font - BodaciousBonnie · 7 hr. ago (9 Partassipant [3] NTA but I would legitimately look into a divorce lawyer. This is so far past therapy. He's not a stay at home dad. He's a scrounger who neglects the children in his care. What is his actual worth as a partner? 8.2k Reply Share

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