Men Reveal Things That Would Be Deal Breakers In Relationships

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Jan 7, 2022 5:00 PM EST

Some things just scream red flags from the get-go in a relationship. Others take time to show their true colors. Either way, once we discover those red flags, we'll be running in the completely opposite direction. In an AskMen thread, men shared what would be total dealbreakers in their relationships. Scroll down to see if you would make the cut with the men of Reddit. 

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    Font - r/AskMen · Posted by u/Every-Midnight-956 2 days ago What's a deal breaker for you in a relationship ?
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    Let's review all the red flags together so we can successfully avoid them. 

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    Font - Buzzz_3 2 days ago Lack of communication, 0 ambitions and weirdly close relationship with an ex.
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    They need to be driven, as well as driven far, far away from any exes. 

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    Facial expression - JAHNOOSKA · 2 days ago Stupidity. I used to think it was cute when a gal was an airhead, but after dating a few... it's not. It's annoying, and it leads to some really irritating relationship dynamics.
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    Font - Vyzantinist · 2 days ago "I only hang out with guys because it's less drama."
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    Font - Smegmalollipop · 2 days ago Poor money handling and unnecessary debt. I'm fine with student debt but buying luxury items you can't afford is a hard no.
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    Font - emein · 2 days ago Male Being lost to a vice. We all have habits. Moderation is the key.
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    Human body - mexploder89 · 2 days ago Male Astrology taken seriously. Virtue signaling
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    Font - groovy604 · 2 days ago Lots of past relationship drama. Constant need for validation / emotional support. Little to no friends of her own. I have learned thats the trifecta of someone who is the source of all the drama in their life and it will not end with me.
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    Font - HeadbangerNeckInjury · 2 days ago Racism and bad breath.
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    Handwriting - No_Ordinary_3824 · 2 days ago Someone who agrees with everything
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    Font - stupidlittlehuman · 1 day ago Someone who says all the right things but doesn't take any action towards it. For example, someone who says they miss you but make no effort to come and see you. Actions speak louder than words.
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    Font - jkd_man · 1 day ago Cheating, secrecy, untrustworthy behaviour, asking for open relationship, swinging, polyamory all deal breakers for me. My partner has to be mine, and I hers only, and there needs to be transparent openness in everything. Otherwise what's the point of it all.
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    Font - ggs_golf · 2 days ago Unemployed with no aspirations or initiative. They don't have to have a high salary, or be in pursuit of a PHD, but they need to be productive in some way or there's no chance.
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    Font - 3rdMelee_2ndWave · 2 days ago General sheepishness. If you're not confident enough to assert your desires, and not dangerous enough to pursue them- you're not the one for me.
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    Font - bjb13 · 2 days ago Jealousy. Especially when there is absolutely no reason for it other than my having a female friend. Fortunately I've never had a woman in my life who was that way, but I'd be out quick if I ever did.
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