Mother-In-Law Installs Camera In Woman's House, Family Sides With Mom

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    Font - Posted by u/throwraOP96657 2 days ago 3 7 S 8 AITA for banning my MIL from the house after I discovered that she's installed a camera in the bedroom? Not the A-hole My husband (M33) got into a car accident almost a month ago, He's been bedridden due to a back injury and I've been his primary caregiver. The pressure has been too much from my MIL, she keeps telling me to take care of him and be there for him constantly. She begged me to take time of work and I did, asked me to send her hour
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    Font - Days ago, she called to berate me about not replacing the sheets quickly, I had no idea how she found out since my husband didn't call her. My sister inlaw called me to tell me that her mom installed a camera in the bedroom to see if I was taking proper care of her son. I was stunned, after searching the room I found the camera, I called my MIL and had a huge fight with her. She admitted it and said she was just feeling concerned and wanted to make sure her son was being cared for (despit
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    Font - decision but I told them she breached my privacy and took advantage of the situation, they said I'm taking it too personally and that I can't blame a concerned mother for wanting to make sure her son's fine, especially since she listed things she thought I was doing wrong. I ended the conversation but my husband is upset telling me I'm being vindictive and that if his mom can't come then he'lI move there with her. We argued then I went outside and he's been silent eversince. ΑΙΤΑ.?
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    Font - Novykh · 2 days ago Partassipant [1] 3 W & 13 More NTA. Report it to the police. Let your husband go home to his mummy.
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    Human body - 13jopbjr - 2 days ago NTA. Let your husband move out then. That woman should be arrested! What kind of family is this???? Get tf out of dodge before you are entangled with children.
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    Font - Foralark90 - 2 days ago Professor Emeritass [79] NTA Jesus. I have a sick feeling she never would have uninstalled it. Check the rest of your house and block anyone who doesn't respect your autonomy and privacy.
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    Smile - EffectiveGold8273 · 2 days ago Partassipant [3] NTA. Your husband just asked for a divorce. Let him stay married to his mother. There are better fish in the sea.
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    Rectangle - Glittering-War-5748 · 2 days ago Partassipant [1] NTA let him move, problem solved where's the conflict? The relationship is probably over, but have you not realised your husband knew about the camera? She installed it while he was in the room.
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    Font - Jessdownunder · 2 days ago NTA. Time for him to go live with mummy. F that report to police ad file for divorce. That family is crazy. 2.1k Reply Share Report Save Follow throwraOP96657 OP - 2 days ago If he goes to stay with her I might get more guilt and harassment than I had already received so far since the family are hinting that I'm looking to start fights to get out of taking care of my husband, but after all I've done and how obvious my efforts were they shouldn't claim I'm being
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    Font - Help24-7 - 2 days ago Asshole Enthusiast [7] NTA Wtf..Are you in the US?? That's illegal here and with her behavior I would have called the cops on her... And if your husband is defending her insane behavior let him go move back in with her. They can both be miserable together and you can have some peace. Do not back down from this.
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    Font - Unit-Healthy · 2 days ago Professor Emeritass [98] Let him move in with her. NTA. I can't get past an old lady having the skills to install a camera that no one noticed. But anyway - given he's bedridden, he knew about the cam the whole time because he was lying there when she installed it. The guy's a real mama's boy for not telling you or stopping her.
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    Font - Theemillershow 2 days ago · edited 2 days ago Asshole Aficionado [11] Unsolicited, unauthorized record and transmit wiretaps are felonies in many US States (not sure where you are located). The more important question is did your husband consent to your MIL installing it? If he is bedridden with a back injury requiring support, was he in the room when she set it up? NTA, the gall of this woman knows no bounds which has created a submissive son willing to kowtow to her whimsical demands. I
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    Font - superflex · 2 days ago Partassipant [1] NTA. Jesus that is such a massive invasion of privacy, I would be out for blood. That is so far over the line. Wow. Your husband is 33 years old. If him and his mom aren't willing to cut the apron strings then maybe he should go stay with her. Apparently he's good with being infantilized. Gross.

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