Mother-In-Law Won't Stop Comparing Man To Doctor Ex, Gets Shut Down

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    Font - Y r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/CherryBlossom7997 3 days ago 5 7 33 AITA for refusing to make my husband apologize for what he said to my mom at dinner table? Asshole So, I f31 recently got married to my husband Scott m36. Before I met him I was engaged to my former fiance Martin, but we broke it off because this relationship was sort of pushed by my family because he's a doctor and comes from a wealthy family. When our relationship ended mom was devastated. She did her best to bring us b
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    Font - Scott, she treats him well but constantly makes passive, nagging comments about him. She compares him to Martin all the time which bothers both of us but we try to let it slide. Mom kept telling Scott about the diamond ring, new car, and bank account Martin got for his fiancee and kept sending him photos saying how generous Martin is to his fiancee than compared him to Scott and what he had done for me. I told her stop doing this and she apologized.
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    Font - Last week, we were over at my parents house for a social gathering, lot of relatives came and we had dinner. At dinner table mom asked Scott if he saw the text she sent him the other day, he said he was sorry and that he didn't notice. She told him to check it right then and read it out loud so everyone at the table could hear. He took his phone and started reading the text out loud. Her text mentioned how Martin got his fiancee a new house and how generous he was, then said that Martin i
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    Font - pissed obviously, however, he didn't lash out or anything he looked at the text, smiled and said "you know, what gets me about this entire text is how you were a public educator for 30 years, yet you can't differentiate between the passive "you" and the contraction "you're", Good God! The thought of all the children that must've been left behind!". Everyone at the table busted into laughter and mom's face went pale. She decided to leave the table then she and my sister started yelling at
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    Font - 2 2 e2 & 8 More asdferdfas · 3 days ago Partassipant [3]] YTA. WHY ARE YOU LETTING YOUR MOM TREAT YOUR HUSBAND THIS WAY? Yes, your husband handled it like a champ, but grow a freaking spine and tell your mom in no uncertain terms to cut that shit out.
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    Font - ShelyChelle - 3 days ago S Partassipant [1] Why? I have to say, YTA for brushing your mom's behavior to the side, stop being around that type of nastiness, if I were your husband, I would have put my foot down, no more of your mom's visits, if she comes over, and no more visiting, if you want to go, go alone...you obviously ha ent done enough to put your mom in her place, if the tables were turned, you would want to be defended against your inlaws
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    Font - VegemilB - 3 days ago YTA for not standing up for Scott more. From your post, he can fight his battles just fine, but your sister and your mother needs to know that their actions are not okay. Scott sounds like a keeper. Maybe choose him over your busybody mom.
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    Font - georgiajl38 · 3 days ago 3 YTA for even thinking Scott might need to apologize to your Mom YTA for not shutting your Mom down a long time ago Your Mom is a total raging AH who needs to be the one apologizing for her appalling behavior Your Sister is an AH for siding with your bullying Mom Scott is a gem and NTA. He's brilliant!
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    Font - FunnyRingaling - 3 days ago she treats him well but constantly makes passive, nagging comments about him. You realize that these two statements directly contradict each other right? Also I dont think you're both trying to let it slide. I think you're a coward who should have actually stood up for your fiance years ago but haven't so here we are...
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    Font - American-Mary - 3 days ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [35] NTA. She decided to leave the table then she and my sister started yelling at me saying Scott was being awfully rude and I need to get him to apologize immediately forembarrassing mom at the table. What about your mom embarrassing Scott at the table? Is she going to apologize for that?
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    Font - EnvironmentalFuckwit · 3 days ago Partassipant [2] Holy fu k yes YTA. You should've cut your mom off a long time ago. Shame on you for allowing your husband to be abused like this. Absolutely pathetic of you, grow a spine.
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    Font - MotherOfDoggos4 · 3 days ago Partassipant [2] OP please tell Scott that made me literally laugh out loud and I would've paid money to be there to see that. If he apologizes for clapping back I will lose all respect for him. That was absolutely brilliant. NTA

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