Woman refuses to babysit her nephews after her sister-in-law demands she run a strict summer studies system: ‘I thought I would be taking them out to the park, the beach, watching cartoons together, drawing’

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  • AITAH I said my SIL i will not look after her kids no more

    "She pulled out a whole list of things I should be doing with them”
  • I (25F) decided to move back home roughly two months ago to stay closer to my family. I live in my
  • own house, near the beach and work completely from home as a freelancer.
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  • Two weeks ago my SIL asked me if i can look after her kids(It's summer break from July to August
  • here). both her and my older brother are busy with work, and can't look
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  • after them (my mom can't do it either because she own a bakery.) I accepted, i didn't see any problems
  • in looking after them for a couple of hours in the morning/afternoon. Plus, i like my nephews, they are nice kids. So i said yes.
  • But everything went down when she pulled out a whole list of thing i
  • should be doing with them. Now, disclaimer, both my SIL and my
  • brother are very religious and I'm not. The list she gave me involved
  • reading/studying the Bible (at least an hour first thing in the morning), let
  • them watch religious contests, and then spend at least two hours copy
  • by hand parts of the Old testament/New Testament.
  • I found all of that absurd to say the least. I thought i would be taking them out to the park, the
  • beach, watching cartoons together, drawing. I am not comfortable, nor I see myself fitting into that
  • (I'm scared i may mess up. something). So i changed my mind and told her, no
  • i can't do it. Not with the list she gave me. Of course, she got very mad,
  • and called me irresponsible. I asked her if we can do other things, but she is firm on her
  • little list. I didn't want to dump her last minute, but i genuinely don't see myself doing all that.

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