Man Who Used To Chase Cougars Reveals To Current Girlfriend That He Finds Her Mom Pretty

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    Sky - r/dating Posted by u/wendyyolomgl Red flag?? 5 hours ago
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    Font - I need your opinion/ advice: So there's this guy that I like and a week ago he literally opened up to me and said he sees himself in the future having a family with someone like me and he showered me with compliments. He also revealed a secret which was so unexpected and surprising: he used to kinda << date >> cougars (nothing serious just one night stand). He told me
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    Font - now he's ready to date women his age. Anyway yesterday I posted a story (a pic of me with my mom) and he asked me if she was my mom. I said yes and he told me she looks so young. Then we talked about our parents age and later he told me "your mom is pretty ;)" How am I supposed to interpret this?? I mean ofc it's very kind and it may be well- intentioned but considering his past with cougars it felt a bit weird. Do you think it's a red flag or is he just too clumsy??
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    Font - znrvz. 4 hr. ago It could be well intentioned but I wouldn't want that kind of paranoia in my life. If you were hitting it off during your date and got into that zone of sharing personal stories, then him telling you about his past could not be a bad thing. But if without a disclaimer, he suddenly just showered you with compliments and revealed his secret, it sounds like manipulation to me.
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    Font - TheRed467 3 hr. ago You're looking too much into it. like way too much into it. stop over analyzing every little thing and enjoy what's happening. If you don't you're going to be sad and alone for a very long time. have a little confidence in yourself hunny.
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    Font - banishedhere 2 hr. ago In my experience, the first born female in a family tends to look like her mom when reaching that age. So, it could be nothing more innocuous than him thinking you're still going to be pretty at that age.
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    Font - rubensq7. 3 hr. ago If you have to ask, you already know the answer. It seems like your instincts have already given you an indication as to how you should perceive this. Trust yourself, trust your instincts.
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    Font - theseoulplayer. 4 hr. ago Meh, doesn't sound that bad to me. Now if he's trying to meet her one-on-one or something, that's a different story, but it seems to me like you're reading too much into this.
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    Font - Mountain_Childhood 80 4 hr. ago Ask him why all of a sudden he doesn't date cougars anymore and wants to marry his age
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    Facial expression - Better_Nebula_9790 - 4 hr. ago A winky face about your mum?? Uh yeah, that's a pretty massive red flag.
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    Font - Several-Week-2174 - 5 hr. ago Yes major red flag he's going to use you to get to your mom. Delete delete
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    Font - hg765DFhgf 3 hr. ago One advice - Leave him. I rest my case.

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