Obnoxious Guy Can't Hide His Crush On One Of His Female Friends In Front Of His Fiancée

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    Font - Posted by u/RoundReplacement7840 4 hours ago AITA for complimenting a friend of mine making my fiancée jealous?
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    Font - TA and fake names. I've (29m) known my good friend Sara (29f) since we were both 7 years old. We grew up together and were very close.
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    Font - Sara is very beautiful and stylish. She's working as a bridal consultant and a stylist and she's into the fashion industry so her sense of style is immaculate.
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    Font - My fiancée Jane (27f) is a lawyer. She has a more casual chic style while Sara has a more glamorous style. And I realise how both women's works and lifestyles also affect their sense of style.
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    Font - For the record I adore my fiancée.ive been with her since she was 20 and I was 22, proposed to her a year ago and she's the nicest and most supportive woman I've ever met. So before anyone says I may be attracted to Sara over my fiancée remember this.
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    Font - Sara is a good friend but we are not compatible to work as a couple at all. Her life goals do not align with mine and her lifestyle is exhausting for me. While Jane on the other hand and I are compatible in every aspect. Sara is what we'd call conventionally attractive while Jane has a more unique kind of beauty.
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    Font - Sara is the kind of woman who will make everyone turn their heads and just stare at her whenever she enters a room. She's always been like that.
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    Font - Jane didn't seem to mind at first but later on she started getting bothered whenever I "over complimented" Sara but still didn't make a big deal out of it.
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    Font - A friend of Sara and I got engaged over the weekend and had his engagement party to his new fiancée. Sara was invited so was I with my wife.
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    Font - As always once Sara walked in everyone turned to look at her. It was one of the best outfits she'd wear and one of the best hairstyles she'd have. I went to greet her and I couldn't stop complimenting her all night long because she truly outdid herself.
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    Font - I noticed Jane sitting alone later and I went to ask her what's wrong. She replied that I'm ridiculous for asking as if I don't know already.
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    Font - Then my friend's new fiancée and my friend pulled me to the side and told me that they had spotted my fiancée crying in the hallway a while ago and she told them that she feels like she's never going to be as good and pretty as Sara in my eyes and she feels humiliated and jealous.
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    Font - My friend's fiancée also told me that what Sara wore to the engagement party was beyond inappropriate but she wouldn't say anything because she doesn't wanna stir drama and that at some point Sara needs to stop trying to have all the attention to herself constantly trying to overshadow everyone. AITA?
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I may be TA because I made my fiancée feel jealous by complimenting I may my friend the entire time.
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    Font - hr. Sputtrosa · 3 hr ago ag Pooperintendant [60] I went to greet her and I couldn't stop complimenting her all night long because she truly outdid herself. What the hell? You "couldn't stop"? Yeah, YTA.
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    Font - Pleasant_Birthday_77 · 3 hr. ago So basically you are attracted to Sara but have decided Jane is a better fit for you. Fine. But there's no need to make it so obvious and insult and humiliate Jane. Control yourself, you're a grown man.

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