Men Reveal How They React To Women Offering To Split The Check On The First Date

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    Font - r/AskMen. Posted by u/Internal-Tale-4668 19 hours ago If a woman offers (genuinely) to split the check on the first date, what's your reaction? Positive? Negative? Don't care?
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    Plant - welkinator 17 hr. ago "Why don't you let me pay the check and you pay the tip" - impresses them every time.
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    Font - Anoob13 15 hr. ago Don't care but mostly always I pick up the tab. If there's a next one, there is, if not, then not. Maybe I'm just set in my ways but my thought process is, I invited you out, so the predicament is not on you to carry the money, it's on me and I'll take care of it
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    Art - NormalUpstandingGuy - 15 hr. ago I like it when they offer but I won't accept.
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    Font - thisisjustascreename 16 hr. ago So. I don't ask anyone on first dates that cost much money. It'd be kind of weird to be asked to split a $12 check for coffees or tea or beers or whatever, but I'd be fine with her paying her own way.
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    Sky - greatteachermichael. 19 hr. ago Male- 40 year old teacher. Positive. We don't live in 1950.
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    Font - poptartwith edited 19 hr. ago 19 hr. ago. Has happened before. She offered, I insisted to pay. She was fine with it. So am I. No big deal. Edit: I guess I should specify that I do really appreciate the gesture of genuinely offering to split and I'm not opposed to it if she insists as well to pay.
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    Rectangle - offdee11 18 hr. ago Male I'd view it as a positive and be thankful. But, still not let her contribute. Tell her she can buy you a drink or two on the next date.
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    Font - WizardVisigoth 19 hr. ago I would think less of a woman who expected me to pay solely.
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    Rectangle - Land543 19 hr. ago I'd say I got it just get the next one. If she gets weird about the next one comment I'll assume it's not happening and let her pay her half.
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    Rectangle - Osa-ian72 13 hr. ago Positive. I don't bribe women with dinner to date me. I only want to date people who are excited to be with me.
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    Font - obligatoryclevername 13 hr. ago Very positive. Big green flag.

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