Guys Reveal How They Know When They've Fallen For A Girl

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Jul 20, 2022 6:01 PM EDT

How do you know when you've fallen for someone? You get butterflies when their name pops up on your phone? You start thinking about what they're doing when you're not around? You start buying things for them because you're thinking about them when you're at the store? We all have a different way that we know we've officially fallen for them. Personally, I have a hard time distinguishing between haven fallen for someone and just having a creative mind that sometimes goes off the rails and starts envisioning an entire relationship with someone I barely know. 

In this fascinating Reddit post, guys reveal how they know when they've fallen for a girl. For some it's as simple as when they notice how she's on their mind 24/7, and for others, it is a realization after they've already lost touch with her. So, how do you know when you've fallen for someone? Let us know down below. 

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    Human body - r/AskMen Posted by u/cherryblossomyeoja 16 hours ago Guys: When do you realise that you've fallen for a woman? What moment do you guys think 'Oh I've got it bad for this woman.' D
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    Font - Eggs351 16 hr. ago When I find myself thinking about her randomly, feeling and satisfied. She's the first person on my mind, what she says really speaks to me, and matters weightily. When the thought of going without her seems like the dumbest idea ever. Reply Share Report Save Follow 115
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    Font - ja_acabou 16 hr. ago When simply hearing her voice is the best part of the day. We started dating before texting was a thing. So we had these daily phone calls. My work schedule was set, but hers was all over the place. I didn't want to call her at say 10am, and she was trying to sleep from working the early shift. So I always waited for her call. Just seeing her name on my phone screen was enough to heighten my mood. Reply Share Report Save Follow 65
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    Font - SH4DOWSTR1KE_ . 16 hr. ago Yep the minute she's in my mind 24/7, that's when I know I'm falling in love and I'm getting ready to hate myself for it sometime down the road. Reply Share Report Save Follow 101
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    Font - Psychedelic-Pain 15 hr. ago When you experience something nice/cool/beautiful while you're out and you just want that person there experiencing it with you. Or you see something that that person likes and automatically want to grab it for that person. This one is sort of negative but hot women don't really interest you like before because that person seems perfect and no other can match her. Constantly thinking about that person. However, I find I am the avoidant type - so I usually end u
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    Handwriting - SylancerPrime 15 hr. ago When just thinking about her makes me smile. When the idea of her smiling makes me happier. When those formerly-goofy love songs start to feel right. ...Shit like that. 23 Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Font - StarScreamRh. 16 hr. ago I have very intense crushes all the time, but I only experience a certain level of calmness when I really dell for someone. Living in the moment to a certain degree 17 Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Human body - actorthrowaway 2006 - 13 hr. ago I bring her up for no reason. Everything reminds me of her. And when I'm around her, I just want to talk with her and stay with her for as long as possible. ↑ 17 ↓ Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Font - Frolo_NA 13 hr. ago Seems to hit me the hardest when they leave for vacation and I don't see them for a week or so 15 Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Plant - Average_40s_Guy - 9 hr. ago Last time it happened, I couldn't stop thinking about her and my appetite was non- existent. I couldn't get over it, so I married her. 12 Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Font - BGslow 15 hr. ago Well, I've been married for 12 years. The moment I saw her it was just life changing. It was like something in my head just clicked or snapped. Reply Share Report Save Follow 12
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    Human body - bryansodred 16 hr. ago When i cant stop thinking about her all the time Reply Share Report Save Follow 35
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    Font - Stillpoetic45 15 hr. ago When I find myself thinking of her randomly or purchasing something for her while im out because I think she will like it. Reply Share Report Save Follow 23
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    Font - reddit_bandito. 15 hr. ago When it hit me that as good as I felt because of this woman, if it didn't work out for us to be together that it was going to hurt commensurately as much. It was at that point where you know your heart is no longer yours but is in somebody else's hands. It's both thrilling and frightening at the same time. Reply Share Report Save Follow 8
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    Art - Apprehensive_Roof497 13 hr. ago I do not feel the need to break eye contact. 48+ Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Font - Deathexplosion - 16 hr. ago Male Usually way past the window of opportunity. At least three times in my life I've had an "oh, shit, I loved that girl" moment. Reply Share Report Save Follow 15
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    Font - RedCascadian 11 hr. ago How much it makes my day when she laughs at some dumb joke I made, or I find myself noticing all the little details like the lines in her face when she's concentrating on something, or smiling. Heck how much it makes my day when she's around. When she makes a mealtime better just with her presence, and when like, 95% of idle fantasies about her are dorky, sappy stuff like walking through a park in fall, or curling up with something I made us for dinner on a cold ni
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    Font - Ipride362 4 hr. ago Experienced When she makes me angry. That's when I know I care. 45 Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Font - CanUnusual8729 9 hr. ago When I no longer want anyone else 3 Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Font - Key-Selection-522 1 hr. ago edited 1 hr. ago For my current shorty. I was brushing my teeth in the morning and I started thinking about some funny shit she said and it rolled into me wondering what she was having for lunch. I wasn't coming through for lunch to surprise her. Just wondered. A salad? Sandwich? What if she got busy and had to take it later? Stopped dead in mid brush and just stared at myself. Little voice in my head in me head went "Uh oh." 13 Reply Share Report Save Follow
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