Entitled Woman Demands Invite To Ex's Wedding, Forbids Her Best Friend From Being Maid Of Honor When The Couple Declines

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Aug 31, 2022 7:00 PM EDT

There are way too many people out there who make everything about themselves. They think that everything revolves around them, even though most people couldn't care less. These delusional people seriously need a reality check because they're clearly living on a different planet where they think everyone caters to their demands and needs. We're used to bridezillas being demanding, but in today's 'Am I the A$$hole?' post, it's actually the groom's ex that takes center stage as the entitled villain. Apparently, the groom and the bride asked OP's best friend to be their maid of honor, but OP wasn't having any of it unless they also invited her to the wedding. Super weird request. We have no idea why someone would want to go to their ex's wedding unless it was to sabotage it. When the couple said they didn't feel comfortable having her there, she threw a fit and forbade her best friend from being their maid of honor. Talk about wedding drama! Scroll down for the full story. 

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    Font - r/AmItheAsshole. Posted by u/Maleficent_Goal_5841 4 hours ago 2 AITA for forbidding my friend from being a MOH to a couple and possibly ruining their wedding experience?
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    We didn't realize friends could forbid friends from doing certain things, but here we are. Take it away, OP. 

  • 02
    Font - My (26f) best friend Fiona (25f and fake name) is very close friends with an ex bf of mine and his fiancée. Due to that, they asked her to be their MOH on their wedding. Fiona accepted but I wasn't ok with that. I'm already uneasy with the fact that she's friends with my ex and his fiancée but I think her being a moh crosses a line and both fiona and the couple disrespected my friendship to her.
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    OP is clearly one of those people who thinks everything is about her. 

  • 03
    Font - I told fiona I'd only be okay with her being a MOH if I received a wedding invite. In our culture Best men and MOHS have a standard amount of people they're allowed to invite, around 10 people each. Fiona said she'd love to invite me but since my relationship with my ex ended badly and his fiancée also doesn't like me, I'm not welcome and that's the couples wish.
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    Font - I told fiona that in this case I'm not ok with her being their MOH since its a sign of disrespect to our friendship. Fiona said her friendship with them has nothing to do with me and that they don't even talk about me, she just really clicks well with them and she doesn't understand why she has to choose sides instead of stay neutral and be ok with both sides. I told her honoring them and accepting such a role in their wedding is a betrayal to my eyes and I came across as forbidding her t
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    Font - Then my ex and his fiancee reached out to me and say I'm being really childish and unfair to Fiona and that I basically took a very trusted and loved person away from their wedding party for my own selfish reasons. Fiona also believes I'm TA but she doesn't straight up say it but I can tell she's mad at me. My bf told me also that I took it too far by throwing an ultimatum about this. AITA?
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    Font - UncomfortableKumquat 3 hr. ago Partassipant [3] YTA. You don't own her, you cannot "forbid" or "allow" her anything. Why do you think you're so important? Why would you want to go to your ex-boyfriend's wedding anyway? Do you think you own him too? You're a terrible friend. Get over yourself.
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    Font - Lacroix24601 3 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [36] YTA and also a complete drama Queen. Are you 17 or something?? Spoiler alert (now this may come as a shock) people can be friends with people you don't like. You don't get to approve everything. The world doesn't revolve around you. You're lucky to have any friends at all with this attitude. I'd drop you like a bad habit which your bf might do now that he sees the real you.
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    Font - profmoxie 3 hr. ago Certified Proctologist [23] Holy crap YTA It's your EX. His wedding is NOT about you. Your friend should get to be MOH if she wants to, and there is literally no reason why any of them should want you at their wedding when you're interfering this much already.
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    Plant - scooter-scoots 3 hr. ago YTA. The world doesn't revolve around you. Your friends can have other lives outside of their friendship with you.
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    Font - 3 3 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [32] It's like you fell out of the asshole tree and hit every branch in the way down. YTA You have zero standing in these relationships and it is wild to try and negotiate an invitation as if you have any standing to negotiate.
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    Font - ChilindriPizza 3 hr. ago Partassipant [3] YTA You are being controlling and possessive.
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    Font - Pining4Michigan 2 hr. ago YTA, in a few years this won't even matter any more. Get over yourself.
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