Woman's In-laws Keep Showing Up to Her Home Unannounced

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    Font - Posted by u/jamhappy165 1 day ago AITA for not going outside to see my husband's family when they show up unannounced? Not the A-hole 2 J My (26F) husband (26) and I have been married for almost 2 years. His family are a very close knit group and although they are very kind and giving, it can also be overbearing IMO. I grew up very differently, my family isn't near as close or overbearing. Well, his family likes to show up to our house unannounced. This usually happens about once a month
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    Font - Recently, I stopped doing that. I just don't even go outside to say hi anymore because I simply don't want to. I don't want to fly through my a I don't want to see them, I didn't know or ask them to come over so I don't want to go out of my way to say hi for 20 seconds. This may make me an as but I feel like it's that hard to tell me you're coming over. Just give us a heads up so I can get ready and put a bra on. The most recent time they had set up a little gift on our front porch. I had
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    Font - My husband thinks I'm being rude, but I think it's his family that is rude. It's rude to show up unannounced to someone's home whether you have a gift for them or not. All I'm asking is for is a heads up that they are coming. I'm not ungrateful for the random gifts, I think they are nice and his family is very sweet. However, I didn't ask for any of that, I like my space. My husband says he's doesn't know how to tell them that without sounding ungrateful, but I feel like they are crossing
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    Font - Edit/update: I wanted to clear up a few things. We see his family outside of these unannounced visits; the visits are not the only time we see them. I don't keep my husband locked in the house, if they want to have lunch, dinner, whatever, we go. When I say 'get ready' I am meaning not looking like I just woke up. I put my bra on for my own comfort, not just theirs. If I have guests over, surprise or not I like myself to appear a certain way. I don't appreciate the husband slander, he's a
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    Font - Zestyclose_Truth9999 1 day ago 2 Parto sipant [2] NTA. she told him to tell me to get dressed and come outside If she can find the audacity to say that rubbish, then she can pick up a bloody mobile and let you know she's coming over. Reply Give Award Share Report Save Follow 11.9k
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    Hair - o Chaoticgood790 · 23 hr. ago Your husband needs to get a shiny spine and some boundaries. NTA your husband and your family are though.
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    Font - Only-Main8948 - 22 hr. ago I'm thinking that since you stopped coming out for them, they bought this gift to MAKE you come out Reply Give Award Share Report Save Follow 46
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    Rectangle - twilitfall 22 hr. ago Next time come out in your pjs and very obviously "having just rolled out of bed" bedhead. Add an eye rub for dramatic effect. After they're aghast at seeing a grown woman in pjs, ask them to call next time to make sure you're even awake. Reply Give Award Share Report Save Follow 27

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