Once a couple gets married, they get into a certain groove that works for them. No couple has the same groove. It might take a while to get into the groove, but once you got it, you're good for life. The couples that don't work out their groove are bound to fight. Even though chores don't seem like a big deal, they can definitely develop into a big deal if the couple didn't successfully delegate the tasks from the get-go. In today's 'Am I the A$$hole?' post, OP told us about her husband always leaves his fancy knives out after he uses them, even though she's made it clear that she has a huge fear of knives. One might go so far as to say that she has a phobia. She panics and moves it to the dishwasher, but he claims that the dishwasher makes them blunt. Scroll down for all the marital knife drama.
Nothing should be too fancy to put in the dishwasher.
This story really shows how couples fight over the most mundane things.