'I'm sorry but ten kids is a big cost on our wedding budget': Drama ensues when bride invites only some of her religious sister's kids

Ben Weiss • Writer and Editor

Oct 25, 2022 3:00 PM EDT

Does it make you a bridezilla to not invite all 10 of your sister's children?

This thread was posted to Reddit's r/AmITheA**hole subreddit by u/Bright_Physics_8375, who shared her family drama with the ruthless judges of the AITA community. Essentially, she was planning her wedding on a tight budget and asked her religious sister if she could invite her three oldest kids rather than all ten of them (the youngest of which is only a year old). Of course, this backfired and caused a whole lot of unnecessary drama in which the sister claimed that the Redditor was being a bridezilla and did not approve of her religious beliefs and lifestyle.

Our hot take here is that the sister's argument is a big stretch. It's the bride and groom's right to decide if they don't want a wedding full of children. Maybe this could have been communicated better, but you cannot expect to have that many offspring and assume they can go wherever you go. Keep scrolling below for the full story! For more wedding drama, take a look at this post about a bride who kicked a server out of her wedding.