Doggo Owner Prioritize's Dog's Health Over Neglectful Mom's New Stepchild, Unjustly Gets Called Monster By Family

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    White - Posted by u/Cool-Sector8699 16 days ago 32 AITA for prioritizing my dog over my mom' stepchild?
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    Font - I (f32) have a 12 years old American Bully named Rory. Because of her age she had a lot of health issues. Right now she needs to have surgery. It's going to be around 6k plus about 3-4k in meds followed by 6 months in therapy that's going to be 10-12k. That brings the total to 22k the most. I can easily afford it because i have a good job (in IT), i don't have any debt to pay, I'm child free and i budget myself very well.
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    Font - My mom was what you can call a weekend parent. She never really mothered me. She will often let me fend for myself. Because of that my childhood was practically nonexistent. My dad died when I was 2 and my grandparents lived far away so I was by myself 99% of the time. I went Low contact with her when i started college.
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    Human body - Last year she got married to Alex who has a 5 year old son (David) from a previous relationship. I wasn't aware of any of this. I didn't know she was dating and i didn't know she got married.
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    Font - Mom called me last night because David has some health issues and needs medical care that's too expensive for their budget. That's when I found out about Alex. Apparently my mom did tell me anything because if i knew about Alex she would have been forced to invite me to the wedding which she didn't want to do because Alex doesn't know i exist.
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    Font - Basically she wants me to send her 15k to pay for David' treatment or whatever he needs. I said no. I'm doing well financially but I don't have that kind of money and I'm not paying for a random kid. I told mom as nice as I could that I can't help her because 1. I don't want to and 2. I don't have the money. She ended the call. She found out about my Rory' surgery from my cousin and this morning I woke up to a bunch of voicemails and text calling me all possible names because I chose my d
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    Font - I texted back this: "yes. That dog means the world to me and I will do anything I can for her. David is nothing to me. You got married without telling me because you don't want your hubby to know I exist. Perfect. If I don't exist in your little perfect life then why are you asking me for money? Your stepchild isn't my responsibility. I wouldn't give you 15k even if I had it because you're not important enough to me to spare that kind of money. You haven't called me in what? 3 years? 4? A
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    Human body - Safe to say my family is now calling me a monster because I would rather help a dog than a child. My decision is final but I'm curious if I'm TA.
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    Font - Update: 1. Regarding Rory: surgery - it's nothing life threatening. She has nerve damage so her back legs are almost completely numb. The surgery is going to help her walk properly. She isn't going to be in pain because the nerves are almost completely gone. I wouldn't go thru with it if i new she would be in pain after. 2. I talked with my cousin and she gave me Alex' full name so i found him on Fb. I messaged him and i told him everything. I sent him more then enough proof that i am who
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    Font - For anyone interested in Rory' surgery She had the surgery today, everything went smoothly. She was kept fir observation for a few hours and our vet is expecting her to make a full and fast recovery besed on how things went during and after the surgery! We are home and she is getting back up after the anesthesia. It's been a couple of hours since we got home and she's already energetic. She's thriving on the attention. I think she knows she going to get spoiled rotten and she's very happy
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    Rectangle - No-Names-Left-Here 16 days ago edited 16 days ago Certified Proctologist [21] NTA. Ask every family member that calls what you can put them down to donate to your mother. That should stop the calls.
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    Font - DrWhoop87 16 days ago Certified Proctologist [25] This happens almost daily here:"I was asked to do an unreasonable thing and said no. Third parties who can do the thing are telling me I'm TA for not doing the thing." 1.1k Reply Give Award Share Report Save Follow

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