‘He Ghosted Me After One and a Half Years’ : Women Reveal the Times They Were Ghosted When Dating An Immature Man Child

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    Font - Posted by u/Jchilli25 17 hours ago What's the longest you dated someone who then ghosted you? Dating/Experience I was dating someone I met on this app for 19 months. It was somewhat casual but we agreed to be exclusive, we had met friends and gone on weekend vacations, weddings, etc. I thought we had built a decent personal relationship outside of sex.
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    Font - I was wrong. He left my house a few weeks ago after spending the night. He proceeded to thank me a couple of days later via text for his Christmas gifts that he had finally got around to opening, and after a couple of back and forths, he stopped responding for the day. And I haven't heard from him since.
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    Font - Who the f k does this? I was so nice to this guy. And no, I didn't text him asking what is going on...I don't do that...I don't chase if I'm not wanted. I've seen him on the road (we live 10 min from each other in a smaller town) so he isn't hurt or d d. I'm just floored that I didn't deserve a goodbye.
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    Font - So my question is has anyone dated with real longevity just to be ghosted? It's a pretty fi ked up experience that has really convinced me that dying single is the only viable option.
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    Font - trynafindaradio. 16 hr. ago I clicked on this thinking I'd trump everyone with my 3 month, we were hanging out most days, I watched his dogs overnight, then I got ghosted story but 19 months?? That's so disrespectful :( I'm sorry 300 X Reply Share
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    Font - apsalarya 16 hr. ago For me it was April to June - so about 2.5 months. It was casual but exclusive. I offered to treat him to dinner, he said he felt he was coming down with something and he'd text me if he felt better. Never heard from him. So he did. Until I saw him at a wedding in September of that year. Reply Share 87 X
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    Font - damnallthejellyfish · 15 hr. ago Tell us about the wedding !!! Reply Share 17 X • 14 hr. ago apsalarya Lol it was relatively small. He was the best man. I was a guest. Showed up in a nice black and white dress with fire engine red heels and lips (me not him). He spent the entire wedding and reception avoiding eye contact even when standing right next to me.
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    Font - Finally as the reception was wrapping up and he was standing by himself I walked up to him and stood in front of him and said "well I guess I'll say hi to you since you haven't said hi to me" He said "oh wow! I didn't see you!"
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    Font - I said "dude you've been seeing me all damn day. But we are adults and this doesn't have to be awkward. So hello, how have you been?" He then blinked and said "I always knew you were a chill girl" whatever that means.
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    Font - We had a little idle chat and then went our separate ways. I saw him one or two more times after that because we (clearly) had a mutual friend. We both pretended like it wasn't totally weird and that we never dated 64 X Reply Share
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    Font - damnallthejellyfish - 14 hr. ago Oh jeeez well at least you are the better person here! What a spineless douche 40 X Reply Share apsalarya . 14 hr. ago It was the "I didn't SEE you" for me 47 X Reply Share
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    Rectangle - XcheatcodeX +3 - 13 hr. ago 19 months then ghosting is sociopathic 67 X Reply Share lil_intern +3 12 hr. ago Fr but idk I would totally reach out if that happened to me so they couldn't tell themselves it was mutual 6 X Reply Share
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    Font - Weak_Development4950 · 15 hr. ago 3 years: 2016-2019. Bullet dodged, but the lack of respect still pi ses me off... Reply Share 47 X . 8 hr. ago 2 years for me and I feel this way too. Dexios 4 X Reply Share
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    Font - Necessary_Quiet1352 · 11 hr. ago 5 years! And we were married for a year. Came home from work and he was gone. Haven't seen or heard from him since. That was two years ago. Reply Share 8 X

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