'I talked to HR, and they fired her': Employee accuses coworker of cheating on her husband, attempts to break up her marriage, gets fired instead

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    Font - r/pettyrevenge. Posted by u/Subject-Squirrel-268 16 hours ago Try to ruin my marriage? I'll get you fired. This all happened within the span of about 3 months. It all started towards the end of December. This girl at work decided to post and text my husband that I was cheating on him with her baby daddy. Obviously it wasn't true but she claimed to have pictures. She sent it to his brothers and even my mother in law. None of the pictures were of me and they had no face or any distinguishin
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    Font - All of this made my husband doubt me because if someone sends stuff like that you question if it's true or not. This caused a lot of trouble in our marriage but we talked it out and eventually worked through it.
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    Font - I mentioned she had sent the messages to my mother in law, she sent them all at the same time but I wasn't aware of the messages to my mother in law. It wasn't until almost a month later that my sister in law messaged me and said she wanted to ask me something. She was afraid I would be mad but she said someone had sent my MIL some nasty messages about me. I immediately knew what she was talking about and asked if it was certain person. She confirmed that it was so I explained everything
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    Font - I was going to let it go but when I found out she had also messaged MIL I just got more angry and decided she needed to face some consequences. It's important to note she also posted some nasty stuff about another coworker I'm friends with, so I talked to her and we decided I should report it to HR. They did a full investigation in which I gave them screenshots of what she posted and what
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    Font - she sent my husbands family. Some of the things sent were very inappropriate and not something HR would like to be associated with the organization. Fast forward to now, they finally concluded the investigation and found what she did inappropriate and she was fired. I don't feel any remorse for her and I'm glad she
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    Font - got what she deserved because what she did almost cost me my marriage and mine and my friend's reputation at work. What makes me most happy is that because she was fired over something she did, she won't be able to receive unemployment benefits. Good luck taking care of her family now. Ps. Sorry if the writing isn't up to Reddit standards!
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    Font - EDIT: Hi guys, so I'm posting an edit to address some questions a lot of you guys have. First of all, I was definitely not expecting so many people to read it and reply! 1. How did she get their numbers? She didn't. All this was through social media. She went to their accounts and messaged them. 2. Why did I only decide to report it when I learned she sent it to MIL? I was busy dealing with a newborn and a toddler I just didn't want to have to deal with it. But once I found that out and a
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    Font - 3. Why did she target me? She didn't only target me. In the screenshots I got of what she sent I saw she had other pictures of other girls as well. She only sent the ones that she couldn't directly link to anyone else. One of the pictures she sent claiming it was me had a completely different username than mine on social media. When my husband asked her how she knew it was me she said she didn't know if it was me. She also blocked out some other pictures in the screenshot she sent so when
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    Font - he questioned her about who that was or why she blocked it she refused to say anything. Fun fact, I mentioned in a comment he used to be into me. She was actually one of the people encouraging me to pursue things with him like 6 years ago. This guy had already cheated on an ex and got someone pregnant long before I even met them. She still decided he was a good option to have kids with and now they have more than 1 together.
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    Font - 4. How did she get those pictures of me? I post a lot of selfies so it's not hard for anyone to just save them on their phone. From now on I'm keeping my things private and not post anything anymore. 5. It does sound fake because of how it blew up but I promise it's true. Whether you believe it or not is up to you guys. 6. Her kids will be fine, baby daddy is in the picture and last I knew he had a good job. It's not their fault their parents are a mess.
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    Font - 7. My husband has major trust issues because of his previous relationship. He was with someone and they had 2 kids. Turns out the kids weren't his so even the most innocent message he sees he thinks it's a red flag. It's something I know he needs to get help with because I'm honestly tired of having to deal with the aftermath of what she did to him. 8. About my "Reddit standards" comment, I see a lot of people getting picked apart because of how they write lol.
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    Font - 1llegally Blond3+1 · 15 hr. ago My take is you let her off light. Really light. Let that bitch find another job, and smile a happy smile as she does. Reply Share 1.2k Subject-Squirrel-268 OP 15 hr. ago I still want to sue her just to add insult to injury. But that might just make me lose money because I know she won't ever pay me anything if i do win. 624 Reply Share
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    Font - polo75 14 hr. ago Watch her social media to find where she gets her next job. Find the contact info for the head of HR at her next employer. Send them an anonymous note warning them that their new hire was fired for her pattern of starting rumors. Rinse and repeat until it's not worth your time. 948 Reply Share
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    Font - Cheeseballfondue. 13 hr. ago The mystery here is why it took the MIL getting the messages to talk to HR - why on earth didn't you go to them after your husband and his brothers got it? Talk about a hostile work environment! 255 Reply Share Houjix 5 hr. ago How did she got all her family contact information 90 Reply Share
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    Font - dmnhntr86 2 hr. ago Most people are not very careful with their social media, and even aside from that it's not terribly hard to find someone's phone number if you have their full name. 17 Reply Share
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    Font - NinjaPylon 16 hr. ago Nothing petty about this. Glad you got through it! Any idea why she did this? 131 Reply Share
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    Font - Subject-Squirrel-268 OP 16 hr. ago Tbh she and I used to be friends. Her baby daddy used to be interested in me long before he became her baby daddy. She found some random conversation he had screenshot between us and I guess when she looked through his phone she found pictures of other girls. Apparently she posted other stuff about other girls as well but she blocked me from seeing any of it. I guess I was the easiest one to "burn".
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    Font - thatlad 10 hr. ago There is nothing petty about this. It was perfectly appropriate justice, I'm surprised you didn't go to HR in the first place, it would have been warranted. 30 Reply Share
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    Font - jerry1111659 hr. ago "sorry if the writing isn't up to Reddit standards" Girl - Reddit has no standards lol Reply Share 31 Zabkian 9 hr. ago Thank you for the laugh. Take my poor Redditor award Reply Share 4
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    Font - ProfessionalDaikon16 15 hr. ago Why did she say you were the one sleeping with someone else and fabricate evidence? 24 Reply Share
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    Font - Subject-Squirrel-268 OP 15 hr. ago I wish I had an answer. I think I was just the easiest one to blame for her? He had random pictures of me and my friend that I guess he took from our social media accounts. Honestly the baby daddy was known for trying to get with every girl and was just a general creep. I don't know why he decided to save our pictures. It's all so weird and I'm so glad it's over. Reply Share 65
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    Font - Dull-Geologist-8204 - 7 hr. ago Honestly, I feel sorry for her family. She is going to lie to them about why she got fired and they are in the dark. Usually people don't try and end someone's marriage for no reason. I am assuming here tou didn't do anything to her first so that leads me to believe she wanted tour husband. Reply Share 3

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