'You don't have a say in this' : Chubby Chasing Boyfriend Doesn’t Want His Girlfriend to Lose Weight

Kim Cohen

May 21, 2023 1:00 PM EDT

Us girls are always striving to be the best versions of ourselves. Whether that be physically, mentally, or anything in between. So imagine if you were working really hard to lose weight, and your boyfriend decides to come and tell you that he prefers that you didn't.

Would that be ok by you? Well, according to Redditors it's not ok for anyone else to decide for you - and they made that very clear to this girl's boyfriend.

In this latest AITA post, he asked WIBTA' if I told my girlfriend that I prefer her soft and squishy rather than how she is with the weight she's lost. They were quick to stop him in his tracks and let him know that he has no say in the matter, that he's putting his own feelings before hers, that he's fetishizing, and that if he's not attracted to her anymore - to leave her.

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