People Share First Date Stories That Made Them Decide Against a Second Date

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    Font - r/AskReddit u/whitneywestmoreland 17h What's something that happened on a first date that made you decide against a second date?
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    Font - Pastel-Demon • 14h 1 Award He used his pocket knife to cut me a slice of cake, and later scraped some dirt clumps off of his shoe with the same knife. I asked him if he ever cleaned his knife, and he replied, "no, why?" He also confessed that he was madly in love with me the same day. We had just met. Reply 8.3k
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    Font - Awkward_Ad8740 - 13h 1 Award I picked her up and she asked me if we could stop by her moms house so she could "run in and grab something." I said sure. Made the stop. She went inside. 5 minutes later she comes out hustling towards the car with a carseat and her mom chasing after her yelling. She opens the car door and throws the carseat (which i now see has a baby in it) and starts yelling at me to drive. I freaked and just turned my car off and took the keys out of the ignition. Her mom
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    Font - Richard Thickens • 15h Went to dinner with a girl who I'd been crushing on for quite some time. It seemed to be going well, and we ended up back at her place, watching a movie or something. Out of nowhere, her boyfriend (of whom I was not aware) came back from out of town and stopped in unexpectedly. He and I had a super awkward conversation for a few minutes, then the two of them disappeared into another room for a minute or two. She came back, and said something to the effect of, "I don
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    Font - Crackedin5ths • 17h He got us pulled over, car was searched and he had a brick of coke in the trunk. I almost got arrested. He finally vouched this was a blind date and I was innocent. Stew ... Reply 8.2k
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    Font - TallCommunication302 . 17h He tried to change my order with the waitress because I didn't order what he'd recommended. ... Reply 12.4k
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    Font - ragnarok62 13h Met a girl at a friend's party. We were both in our mid-20s. Ended up spending three hours talking, and she was so funny, charming, gorgeous, and carefree. I asked her out and got a wonderful “I would love to!" from her. I show up about four days later at the restaurant she picked, one within walking distance of her place. She arrived about five minutes later. "Nice place," I say, as I get her chair for her. "Since it's so close, do you eat here often?" She scowls and respo
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    Font - I was floored. Everything continued downhill from there. Within about 20 minutes, she just got up and left. I felt as if she had failed to tell me the other night that she had an evil twin, and that's who showed up this evening. Later, when I ran into my buddy, I asked what the heck was up. "Oh yeah," he said, "she's a piece of work until she gets a few drinks in her. Then she's adorable." Thanks. Thanks a lot, buddy. Reply 9k
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    Font - _fancypansy. 17h 3 Awards He took it out. And I don't mean this in a funny "unexpected Seinfeld" kind of way (although I suppose it IS that). I mean he leaned across the table and whispered "I'm out." I said "excuse me?" For some reason my first thought was "out of the closet." He said "out, under the table. Look under the table." And, like an idiot, I LOOKED." Then he said "that's what you do to me." I said "this is what you do to me" and I left. I'm a people pleaser so, to this day, I'm
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    Font - or GreedyNovel • 12h 3 Awards One was the time I took this girl to dinner and she could not stop staring at our waiter. I'll grant her one thing - I'm a guy and can admit this guy was probably totally hot for anyone who prefers men. Square-jawed and muscled college athlete type. I get it. But I didn't appreciate that she literally craned her neck every time the kitchen door swung open to see if he was walking out. Eventually I gave her enough cash to pay for my part of the meal, told her
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    Font - Pale-Garlic5523 - 14h The guy told me he would still be together with his kids mum if she had apologized for what she did wrong. Out of curiosity I asked what she did wrong? Was expecting something like she cheated, ya know something that actually needed apologising for. Nope. Apparently she kept nagging one day and wouldn't shut up, so, he tied her to a computer chair and went out for three hours and left her there. I said it doesn't sound like she was the one who needed to apologize and
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    Font - redditreader_aitafan • 14h He said nothing. I get he was nervous but I was engaging, I asked questions that should have led to at least a few sentences of conversation, but no, one word answers. It was dinner and a movie so our only opportunity to talk was dinner. It was like pulling teeth. No thanks, no second date. Reply 1.6k
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    Human body - lovely-incognito . 14h He'd given me a fake name and was still in love with his ex. Who was 17. He was 29. No thanks dude. Reply 4991 ...
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    Font - Dune_Asmr 15h She kept writing to her friends on WhatsApp a play by play of the date instead of listening to me, so I stood up, paid my dinner and left because I found it disrespectful af Reply 3.2k
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    Font - azorianmilk. 16h Very recent- asked when I would get a real career. I love what I do, I'm a union stagehand in a major entertainment city. I have been in my industry for over 20 years, toured the country, toured the world, make a comfortable living. Yeah- no. That's pretty demeaning and I'm out. Reply 4.5k
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    Font - shattered_kitkat • 13h 1)He tried to force a kiss. 2) He tried to get me to agree to marry him the next week. No, he wasn't an immigrant. 3) He said women were stupid and would believe anything he told them. I am a woman. 4) He said it was OK to drown puppies. It was "actually humane." 5) He swore that it was impossible to get AIDS if you were straight. Found out a week later that he knew the whole time he was HIV positive. That's just some of them... ... Reply 2.3k
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    Font - Usual-Reason-7748 15h ● i was newly out, and i had had a crush on her for ages, so when she asked me out i was so excited. she was pretty, smart, very laid back, and had a great sense of humor, so things were going great initially. end of the date comes around, and she very casually drops the bomb on me that she's a involved in an open investigation for vehicular manslaughter. she even hinted that it was purposeful and did not seem regretful. that was the end of that. Reply 2.5k
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    Font - realbasilisk • 14h She clicked her fingers at the waitress. Stunning but vapid af ... Reply 1.1k

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