Girl Meets the Man of Her Dreams, But Forgot His Name the Day They Met; After Three Months of Dating a Nameless Boyfriend, She Seeks Wholesome Advice Online

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Jesse Kessenheimer • Writer and Editor
Sep 8, 2023 9:00 AM EDT

Meeting people is really tough. For girls who don't have photographic memory or impeccable facial recognition, meeting guys in an organic setting (not on apps or online) poses a new problem in the dating world. Ironically, the elusive Mr. Right can come sweep you off your feet so fast that you might forget his name in the process. That's exactly what happened to one woman, a 20 something hopeful single who had met a guy in person at an event. Naturally, they opened their introductions with a name, but she never knew that by the end of the night she would be falling in love with this mystery guy and never cached the name. Ooops. 

So while she knew his favorite books and family dynamics, this girl couldn't recall his name by the end of the night. Now, THREE MONTHS LATER, this forget-me-not femme fatale is now way too embarrassed to ask for her boyfriend what his name is.Yikes. Fortunately, relationship experts online have come up with some super wholesome ways to acquire his name and save this girl from the embarrassment of dating her nameless Prince Charming.

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    Font - Posted by u/punkwitch666 1 day ago TIFU by being with a guy way too long without asking him his name... S I [26f] met this really good looking guy [m28] at an event 3 months ago and we really liked each other for the rest of the night we talked about the
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    Font - books we like, we talked about our families etc. and there was a lot of connection. We ended the night with a kiss goodbye and got each other's socials. We told each other our names at first but I have a huge problem with names because of my job (I meet
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    Font - 200-300 students every year I think my mind has reached full capacity). I figured I could just see his name on his socials but he has a nickname on his instagram and just an emoji on his whatsapp ... so I couldn't learn. A few nights later we went out for drinks and I felt so embarrassed to
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    Font - ask his name since we kissed before too. We kept seeing each other until now and it's been three months almost, we also slept together and I think I'm starting to catch feelings also. I just don't know his name and now it's been embarrassingly late to ask him.
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    Human body - TL;DR TIFU by taking way too long to ask the guy I'm seeing for his name. Now I'm too embarrassed to ask.
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    Rectangle - CASOY Nite92 1 day ago edited 1 day ago Do something with a friend of yours. Have them ask his Name
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    Facial expression - Helechawagirl. 1 day ago If you have his phone no., do a reverse ph no look up on white pages.com
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    Font - Helechawagirl. 1 day ago If you're at his place, look for a magazine subscription, or a piece of mail with his name on it. If he pays with a credit card, look at the name.
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    Font - reversethrust 1 day ago Sounds like dog owners at the park.. we all know the dogs names but never the owners. One dog park actually started a sign with dog breed, dog name and owners first name :)
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    Rectangle - snuggl3ninja 1 day ago Ask to see his driver's license picture and let him see yours.
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    Font - KalickR 1 day ago Bingo. Tell him you are thinking of getting your driver's license picture retaken because you hate it. Show it to him. Ask to see his.
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    Font - Love_Denied 1 day ago Get pregnant then in 9months he have to give you his full name to put on the birth certificate
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    Font - Grumzz 1 day ago Or just get married, just before the "I do" part they say the person's full name, right?
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    Font - rubinass3 1 day ago Or crack him over the head with a baseball bat. You can then read his name on the police report.
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    Font - D&D Doustin 1 day ago Or it'll give him amnesia "I can't remember my name" "Oh good, me neither"
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    Font - brainpain152 1 day ago Time to take him to Starbucks! 7.4k Reply Share punkwitch666 OP. 1 day ago Lol! I hope this works but last week we actually bumped into each other at a coffee shop and I looked for a name on his cup but there wasn't any
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    Font - Bobba_fat 1 day ago This has romcom written all over it... what did you call him during all this time then? I really need to know. How did you avoid calling his name for so long? Also, was he a ver close to calling you out for not calling him his name?
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    Font - punkwitch666 OP. 1 day ago I just never referred to him with any names, we just hit each other up like heyy what's up
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    Font - LetThemEatVeganCake 1 day ago I forgot to ask my now husband how to pronounce his name on our first date. Our first date ended up being like 12 hours because we really hit it off. I decided to have my roommate introduce herself. He just mumbled.
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    Font - My other roommate was out of town for a few weeks, but she did the same thing when she got back. She has a difficult to pronounce name so made a big show about how important it is to her to get names right, so had him say it multiple names.
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    Font - inochi_no_tabekata. 1 day ago Do you know what he does for a living? Maybe find him on linkedin through his company or whatever. Maybe he has a photo online somewhere ^
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    Font - patchinthebox. 1 day ago Eh doesn't always work. I always use Bruce Wayne at Starbucks. Last time I checked, I'm not a billionaire or Batman.
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    Font - StanStare 1 day ago Can you imagine another tifu that someone's girlfriend has been calling them Bruce, but he's too afraid to correct her with his real name after being with her for too long
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    Rectangle - JoeyJoeJoeJrShab 1 day ago Have your best friend "accidentally" run into you while you're on a date. Make sure she knows to quickly introduce herself directly to your partner (since otherwise, the usual social behavior would be for you to do it).
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    Font - Arrange to receive an "important" phone call around this time. This will cause you to walk outside where you can hear better, leaving your friend and partner together. Now she has a second chance to get his name in case anything went wrong in the first attempt.
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    Font - Make sure none of this is revealed to your partner or anyone else..... until the two of you get married, and your best friend, serving as your maid of honor retells this story during her toast. 2.5k Reply Share punkwitch666 OP. 1 day ago So far this is the best plan I think! Thank you
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    Smile - 'I messed up by taking way too long to ask the guy I'm seeing for his name. Now I'm too embarrassed to ask."
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