'She accused me of stealing her kids' cat': Pawsitively Heroic Hooman Rescues Stray Fuzzy Feline, Neighbor Demands Her to Return the Cat So Her Kids Can Play With It

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    Took in a stray. Now my neighbor is accusing me of stealing of the cat. What should I do.
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    A wonderful stray started coming around and was found and reported lost by my neighbor. I took a liking to the cat over the days and approached my neighbor about it's ownership. She said he had no owner and that she would take him in but he didn't get along well with her cat and other pets. I said well I would love to take care for the cat and take him to the vet and what not. She said that's fine but if it could be an outside cat bc her kids to a liking. I didn't have an issue, I wanted him out
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    We scan this cat and nothing for a microchip. I take him to the vet and our vet said based on him being intact, no signs of ever being at a vet, he is very likely a stray. I decided what the heck, Let's adopt him. He got his first set of vaccines, boosters due Tuesday, neutering done the following week. I felt like a bonafide cat owner.
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    Today I'm out of town and the cat is staying at home. He has automated feeders and water. Today he was perched by the window and our neighbor saw. I see my neighbor through my cameras banging on my door and accusing me of stealing her kids cats. I really don't want to deal with any confrontation but I don't know what to do. Am I in the wrong? What can I do moving forward. Thanks.
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    EDIT: Drove through the night to get back to kitty. He was happy to see me and my dog. He got a whole Churu and lots of pets. Will undoubtedly have to deal with my neighbor in the morning, hopefully it doesn't go too bad. Wish me luck!
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    SophsterSophistry . 9 hr. ago So the cat isn't your neighbors and she can't take the cat in, correct? But because her kids like the cat, she wants it to be outside cat? That's not to the cat's betterment. Tell your neighbor that the cat was a stray, was not anyone's cat, and now it's yours because you've officially adopted it. That should be the end of it. My recommendation is that you keep the cat permanently inside for the cat's own good.
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    ocfl8888 OP. 9 hr. ago Thank you. To add, she already has a cat which is pretty much outdoors 90% of the time. She's very sweet. They're banging at my door over the cat that I took when I can see their actual cat completely ignored sitting by their car. It's blowing my mind actually.
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    Bumble-Lee 9 hr. ago It was never her nor her kids cat. Honestly if anything the cat shouldn't be let outside to free roam. If she wasn't acting so aggressively letting the cat out for supervised outside time to play with her kids could have been an option if anything. Def record any evidence you can that it was never her cat and she agreed that you could take him in
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    FunkyLemon1111 9 hr. ago Let's reverse the rolls. Let's say you/we were she and we loved this cat, our kids loved this cat but we could not allow it in. Along comes a friendly neighbor offering to vet and take care of the kitty. WOW! That's great, can my kids still pet and play with it? Sure? Great! If we then saw the cat now owned by our neighbor in their window but missing from outside...
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    If we then saw the cat now owned by our neighbor in their window but missing from outside... We'd be grateful and happy for the cat for finding a home. We would NOT be selfishly banging on the door claiming they stole our cat. She's psycho. Try to discuss the situation with her, but expect to have to prove to the police that you've vetted this stray cat she didn't want to take care of and are now keeping it.
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    • kroating 7 hr. ago Get your cat chipped asap and register to your name. Its your cat.
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    Puzzleheaded_Bee4361 7 hr. ago I strongly recommend that you make kitty into an indoor cat. Much safer for them - away from loose dogs and other predators, cars, and belligerent roaming cats and neighbors.
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    thesefloralbones 10 hr. ago • How long was the cat reported as lost, and how was that advertised? How distinct does this cat look? Overall, I'd say you did your due diligence to find the owner and if the cat was obviously neglected then this guy doesn't have much of a claim to it. If it's something generic like a solid black cat, it might not even be the same cat anyway.
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    c-_-Second_Last ⚫ 8 hr. ago Just live your life and don't worry about the neighbor. You did everything you could to try to find an owner
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    WanderWorlder · 4 hr. ago . This cat is better off inside with you in your loving home. You took him in and gave him vet care. Please keep him inside. He does not belong to your neighbors and you have records to the contrary. They are in the wrong and they are not good owners of their own cat. Congrats on your new cat. Do not feel badly. If they calm down, you could offer to let the kids visit your cat but do not feel obligated.
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    aspenjohnston3 - 6 hr. ago She said she couldn't take the cat. You adopted the cat, so it's your cat. He's your indoor cat, not her kids outdoor cat. If she has an issue with that, that's on her. It's your cat, not hers
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    mjh8212 5 hr. ago I had a cat follow me inside my house like she always lived here I posted everywhere and no one claimed her. We'd taken her to the vet for frostbite and she had no chip. We've had her two years now. We have her chipped with our info. She's indoor like all me and my fiancés cats.
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    Accomplished-Lack721 · 6 hr. ago This neighbor really has no claim on the cat and is being unreasonable. It's also better for the cat if you keep it entirely indoors. But there's no reason to meet hostility with hostility. You could offer to let her kids come over for occasional visits with the cat. That may diffuse the situation, and it sounds nice for the kids. Next time you're out of town, they could even help care for the cat and keep it company for brief visits while you're away.
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    . evebella 5 hr. ago · edited 4 hr. ago Outdoor cats can not "claimed" to be owned unless they are microchipped and even then the laws are iffy based on who is actually the main caretaker of the cat.
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    I have been a cat welfare volunteer for 20+ years and received a call about a small calico that kept coming and crying at this family's back door. They would feed the cat tuna. Little did the family know, this was one smart cat who had a home but took advantage of collecting treats around the neighborhood. However, this is the issue with "roaming cats".
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    I was contacted and had the cat scanned for a microchip which was not registered to the owners, but to where the cat was adopted from. To adopt a cat from that facility, you must sign a contract saying that you will not let you adopt a cat if you plan on having that cat be an outdoor cat.
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    Since the owners had breached their contract, I was in no position legally or otherwise to return the little calico to them (even though I was happy to take their phone calls and listen to them yell at me) - THEY broke their contract. They started blaming the neighbors feeding the tuna to which I explain that it doesn't matter if the people down the street were giving out kitty crack, if their cat was indoors, the cat would be none the wiser,
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    Shoshawi 3 hr. ago This is rough, but it sounds like you did nothing wrong. Their actions as well as their words indicate that they will not be a proper loving home, and they even approved prior. I am guessing that legally it is your cat now, too.
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    Try to think of it as a rescue situation. Not as intense but my late void had a collar...blatantly not feral and even had the mannerisms of a sheltered purebred...but his habits indicated neglect, and the collar had no identifying info and he had no chip. I definitely might have stolen him (after he watched me for three months and picked a perfect moment when I was alone to charm me with SSS tier "take me home"), but if I did steal him, I still rescued him. I brought him to the
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    vet the next day for a checkup and they told me to proceed like it was my cat if I was willing to adopt him, and I spent like $180 on his basic vaccinations etc. He was my best friend for over a decade. Home is where you're loved and taken care of, not where you're kept because you're seen as property. Especially not if you have to sleep on the doorstep too

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