Karen family cheats nanny out of $12.50, nanny charges them hundreds in unpaid hours: 'I was furious'

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    "Karen and Ken are wealthy and extremely stingy." K
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    Posted by u/meowsasaurus Mom splits hairs with nanny to save a few dollars and ends up backpaying hundreds LOC tl;dr: Family I'm working for admonished me for charging them an extra $12.50 that they technically owed, so in the interest of accuracy, I tracked hours that I generously chose not to charge them and they ended up paying hundreds back to me. Karen and Ken are wealthy and extremely stingy. Their kid is Bob. Henry is an extremely sweet, generous single dad who lost his husband a few year
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    I have been a nanny for several years now and for the most part, I've worked with lovely, reasonable families. I have contracts for every family that guarantees the hours that I work, meaning if a family goes on vacation, I still get paid because I'm technically available to work but they chose not to use my services. Think gym membership where you pay regardless of whether you've been to the gym in a month. This is standard on nanny contracts. Another bit on my contract is called the nanny shar
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    Karen and Ken's family went to Hawaii three weeks ago, and per my contract, I was to be paid as usual. Before they left, they asked if I could come in and watch the Bob the Sunday after they returned so that they could recover and rest. I agreed and my hours were set at 8 am-4 pm that Sunday. They went on the trip, everything was wonderful, and they texted me when they landed saying they would see me at 8 am. The next day, when I was about to head out the door at 7:30 am, I received a text sayin
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    The week finished, and I ended up staying an extra 8 hours total for the two date nights. I asked Ken to pay me for 16 hours but he said he had to talk to Karen first to double check hours and would pay me shortly. When I got home, I received a text from Karen saying. "Hi Meowsasaurus, thank you so much for covering for us these past few weeks. Ken and I are feeling refreshed and the show was HILARIOUS. Since we were in Hawaii, you were paid for an entire week while you weren't working. We don't
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    I was furious. I screenshotted the part of my contract that plainly stated I would be paid for any hours that their family was on vacation, and I reminded her that it was in violation of contract. She reluctantly agreed, and I texted that it would be a total of 16 hours. Karen instantly replied and WENT OFF, texting "On Sunday, we asked you to come in at 8:30, not 8. We are already being generous and paying you for the holiday we took. We expect you to track your hours better next time. This is
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    Bob has been tagging along with Steve and me to music class and soccer twice a week outside of Karen's regular contracted hours since January. Karen has never offered to pay for those hours, but Henry was fine with paying his full rate for those hours because Steve was having trouble making friends at school and had become close to Bob. I chose not to say anything about the slight bump in pay because I loved watching them play together. MALICIOUS COMPLIANCE TIME. As Karen stated, I needed to be
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    almost $2000. In the group chat with Karen, Ken, and Henry, I said, "Karen stated that it was of utmost importance that I tracked the hours as accurately as possible, so I took it upon myself to double check everything including the share hours. Thank goodness I did! I didn't realize we had forgotten to track all the hours that Bob joined us for soccer and music. Henry, I'm so sorry, Karen actually owes you quite a bit of money. If my calculations are correct, they owe $X to you and to me"
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    Henry replied, "Karen and Ken, I am so disappointed to hear that Meowsasaurus hasn't been compensated properly this entire time. I don't need my hours to be refunded for those hours bc I wanted Steve to continue his playdates but you need to pay Meowsasaurus's portion immediately" I got a huge chunk of money I wasn't expecting, and I am now on the hunt for my next nanny family. I'll be putting my 2 weeks notice with Karen and Ken as soon as I do.
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    coberh Why piss off the nanny? It's really hard to find a good one. lilium_x Rule 1: Don't be an AH to anyone Rule 2: Really really don't be an AH to (i) Your childcare; (ii) The person bringing you food; (iii) The office admin Rule 1 is basic manners, Rule 2 is basic self-preservation! Sybrandus (iv) anyone removing something from your body e.g. barber/stylist, dentist, surgeon, etc
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    upset_pachyderm - 8 hr. ago Good for you! It doesn't matter what kind of work you do, wage theft is unacceptable. If they can afford a nanny and vacations in Hawaii, they can certainly afford to pay you your contracted hours.
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    firemogle 7 hr. ago There is a huge correlation between being wealthy and being incredibly cheap. It makes sense, but it can be just pathological for some. I dated a girl in the late 90s whose dad was a multimillionaire and would force house guests to wash paper towels to save money.
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    moonahmoonah · 10 hr. ago If there's anything I've learned from being a parent for the past 10 years, it's that you DO NOT nickle and dime your babysitter/nanny/caregiver. Ever. And be GENEROUS. You pay them well, pay them on time, treat them well, and they will always show up. Especially if you are fortunate enough to afford it!
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    killerteacell 10 hr. ago • Also, I caught that she refers to your services as "babysitting", which shows how much she doesn't respect your profession. meowsasaurus OP. 10 hr. ago Holy shit you're right. I didn't even catch that!!! I've just realized they've never referred to me as a nanny even though I call myself that and Henry calls me that!
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    mizinamo. 9 hr. ago We are already being generous and paying you for the holiday we took. I am also extremely generous in supermarkets and always pay the price indicated on the item. WTF? Fulfilling your side of a contract is not "generous".
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    alexaboyhowdy · 10 hr. ago I charge for private lessons. I had a family of three that wanted lessons back to back to back. They must pay a registration fee, they must pay each month in advance. The second month, one child decided she didn't want lessons anymore because it interfered with social aspects of her life. But I was not told of this until the second week, which means they now had a late fee of their tuition.
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    Parents tried to raise a fit saying that they had already paid registration and that was like a deposit. She wasn't taking lessons anymore. They could apply her tuition to the siblings and all other kind of excuses... I pointed out the policy and how they had to give notice and the time she had slotted was now too late to get another student in and I was losing potential income. It took over 20 emails but I did get my full amount of money!
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    I found out there were two other teachers being treated the same way. When the family left the program in month three (of 5 potential), we actually had a little celebration. We decided it was worth the slight financial hit to not have to deal with that family anymore! (Discipline issues, not bringing supplies, being rude to other students, back talking, etc...) But we got our money! Honestly, we felt bad for the kids. They had potential if only they were properly taught and given good examples.
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    AquaticStoner1996 10 hr. ago If I was in this situation, and i found a new job and quit, I'd be petty and say as I was leaving "imagine if you hadn't been stingy unkind people and just paid me the less than 20$ dollars you were supposed to."
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    EndlessDreamers · 9 hr. ago That 8:30 am, they only paying you 7.5 hours hours thing is such entitled bullshit. Good on you for sticking it to that miserly witch.
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    BoredTTT 8 hr. ago • Until you find another family to work for and can afford to dump Ken and Karen, I suggest if they ask again for you to work extra hours, that you respond: "I'm sorry, but given how I was treated last time, I am incentivized to keep those hours free in case other families who respect me need them. Thank you for your consideration."

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