‘You’re entitled’: Woman Insists on Moving into Her Sister’s Master Bedroom, Forcing Sister Into the Guest Room, the Whole Family Gets Involved

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    . r/AITAH • 2 days ago svvvg For refusing to let my sister move in and take my master bedroom because she had to break her lease?
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    My (F22) sister (F24) works fly in fly out in the Australian mines (big money) for 5+ she's had many shared leases with people over the years. She's struggling to find a roommate at the moment.
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    About a month ago, we had a casual conversation about the idea of her staying at the place I'm renting with my partner (M24). Important detail, me and my partner have separate rooms as we need our own space and it works for our sleeping schedules. A couple ideas were thrown
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    around, I offered the spare room which is very small and can only fit a bed. She proposed taking my master bedroom and offered to pay more, which means me and my partner would have to share or one of us move into the tiny room. I said I would talk to my partner about this and get back
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    to her. As of a couple days ago, she told me the landlord is not allowing a second person. For context, I left abruptly from a toxic workplace and now on mental health leave. She straight up texted me, "I don't want to stress you out more
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    but..... when can I move in Imao". Told her I would sleep on it, then the next day she texted, "two weeks to move in?". I had a talk to with my partner and we agreed it's better if she takes the spare bedroom as she's 2 weeks on at her mining job and 1 week off. I called her and said she can
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    have the spare bedroom, then she had the audacity to say she's moving into my master bedroom because and she will pay more. I said absolutely not because the room will be empty for two week at a time. And on top of that she's unclean and untidy, my worry is she will leave
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    my room disgusting. She did not take this well and said that I agreed to her taking my room (which didn't happen).
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    Today she blew up my phone with texts saying I'm petty for not letting her have my room, and that she deserves luxuries. Also she doesn't want to come home to a tiny room after living in one at work. I'm a young person who is finally living in my own place living after being in
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    situations. Why does she feel entitled to take my room and disrupt my life for her convenience? I know she's my sister and I understand her situation and feel for her but this can't be the solution. Am I the _?
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    Dry_Sandwich_860 • 2d ago This is not going to work. You know you'd be crazy to let her move in. Don't do it. She'll pull this drama every time she wants something. It will create problems in your relationship.
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    Tell her it's not going to work. She will push back and tell her that the way she's behaving right now is a sign that it can't possibly work. You are on stress leave from work and can't have this at home.
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    bythebrook88 • 2d ago I'm petty for not letting her have my room, and that she deserves luxuries She may deserve luxuries, but not YOUR luxuries. She
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    She may deserve luxuries, but not YOUR luxuries. She can pay for hers elsewhere.
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    ERVetSurgeon • 2d ago NTA. Tell her that you no longer will allow her to live there. Period. You'd be dumb to take her in because it will just cause trouble and may ruin your relationship with your SO.
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    CinnamonBlue • 2d ago NTA. You know if you let her move in, she'll switch bedrooms when you're at work. PS She can't find a roommate. Ask yourself why.
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    4me2knowit • 2d ago She's breaking boundaries and she's not even in
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    Crafty_Special_7052 • 2d ago I'd tell her I'm sorry but this isn't going to work out and you should no longer move in. She's way too entitled to expect you to give up the master bedroom and as you pointed out she won't be
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    home all the time so it really does make sense she gets the spare bedroom
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    liquormakesyousick • 2d ago This is a preview of what is to come. If you let her move in, do not come crying to Reddit.
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    Bonnm42 • 2d ago NTA I would send her a text "I never said you could have the room. I said I would discuss with my partner what room you could use, while we allow you to stay with us. We are doing you a favor. You do not get to
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    dictate the terms of that favor. Whether you're paying more or not. The fact is, you needed a place to stay, I am giving you one. If you can't respect my partner's and I choice of your accommodations, you are welcome to look
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    elsewhere. If you keep trying to bulldoze me into getting what you want, we should. rethink living together."

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