Bride's Sister Asks Internet for Revenge Ideas on Wedding Guest Wearing White, Provides Real-Time Updates During Reception: 'My sister got pretty upset when I pointed [her] out'

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Isabella Penn
Jul 15, 2024 8:00 PM EDT

Have you ever shown up at a wedding and a guest was wearing white? It's like the number one rule for a wedding. Don't wear white. If it even slightly resembles white or a shade of white, it's probably best left at home. Do people still need to be reminded of this in today's day and age? Apparently, the answer is yes. 

In this story, the bride's sister took to Reddit to ask the internet what to do about a random guest who showed up wearing white to the wedding. She recalled that when she was younger, her sister had told her to get revenge on anyone who showed up to her wedding wearing white. Throughout the ceremony and reception, the sister was updating us on what was happening in real-time, so reading this story makes it feel like you're at the wedding, too. As it turns out, this may have been the one excuse for a guest to wear white to a wedding. 

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    • r/AITAH ⚫ 11 hr. ago Dear-Dingo8699 AITAH if I "accidentally" trip and spill wine all over this girl who is wearing white to my sister's wedding?
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    Ok this is happening right now. I'm in the wedding venue watching my sister get married. So expect updates maybe?? I F(17) am at my sister's wedding right now (I'm so happy for her!). Here's the
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    problem, this random guest (who I don't know) is wearing the very beautiful very obvious wedding gown to what's supposed to be my sister's special day. Back when I was younger and she was a teen she told me that if she got married
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    and someone wore white to my wedding. she wanted me to spill a gallon of syrup and glitter on her as payback. Now the only unfortunate part is that I have no access to syrup or or glitter. You might be thinking wine because that's the most commonly used weapon in these
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    situations but they won't let me near the alcohol table. The only drinks available to the 5 children hear is sprite, orange juice, and water (great selection guys...). Now I would do orange juice but there is very little left and my cousin would murder me.
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    So what to do? I'm pretty sure everyone here has noticed the white dress and is a tad confused by it. My whole family and the grooms side aren't big tradition followers so you basically could wear anything to this wedding and not be directly called out. However, this seems
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    very deliberate and I know my sister has noticed it because how the not?! would you So AITAH? Honestly just tell me what to do cuz idk. I might go talk to her; I love talking to crazy people!
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    (Also don't come at me for making an AITAH post about something so stupid cuz I find this hilarious). UPDATE:
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    So I want to make it clear that I am very much a gentle giant and would never do something so bold. Me and my cousin thought this would be pretty funny to see what other people thought. Now I finally spoke to my sister and her husband. My sister actually didn't notice her and got
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    pretty upset when I pointed it out (I feel kind of bad about that). I asked her if she knew the person to which she said no then ask her husband if he did and he said it was his cousin's plus one and gf. I asked her if she wanted me to do anything about it and she told me yes but also to
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    not make a big scene out of it. So one things I'm pretty good at is info-fishing! I sidled my way up to the guest with my little cousin (not the same cousin as before) and started some small talk with the guests around her which eventually lead to her being brought into the conversation. Now my little cousin is blunt
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    and childish (which is why I brought his amazing self along) and asks why she has the white dress on (as planned). She stutters a little then mumbles something about her being color blind. Ok! Pause. What? I've heard of color blindness where you can't see anything
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    but black or white and if ima be honest I kind of just walked away after that. Like, how do I respond to that? cuz if she's actually color blind and thought the dress was a light shade of some color or other than I'm the AH and she doesn't deserve about it, yk? Then again, if me
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    she's lying that's freaking crazy. I basically just told my sister that and gave me the most ' ?' Face she could manage. She decided not to worry about it and just have a happy wedding! I'm happy for her and honestly just happy she's such a great person and so much better than me lol.
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    UPDATE 2: So me an my cousin have decided that we were the AH and we accept it. It would have been worse if we acted on the joke however. The woman has left and her Bf is no where to be seen so all is well. Me and my cousin brought the post up to my sister (who was a bit tipsy so I'll ask again later) and asked if we
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    should delete since it was unkind of us to do it at her wedding. She laughed at us after reading the post (and a few comments) and told us we were fine and also hilarious. I'm glad my sister is happy and when my sister is happy I'm happy!
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    Let's just celebrate that my sister got married!!! WOOOO GO SISTER!!! Sure I'm just a 17 y/o and acting childish but you that I'll live out my last year bet your of childhood acting like the biggest toddler of all. I love you sis
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    Forsaken-Tiger-9475 • 11h ago Ignoring the social issue of it, if it's ruin it, i'd expect expensive and you ruin they chase you for the money. One AH does not excuse another
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    • enkilekee 11h ago Edited 8h ago Brides and friends of brides: Have a section of large pashminas, scarves and Large statement jewelery pieces. Rather than violently spill wine or cause drama, the designated person will offer the person in white an opportunity to cover it or change the look. I personally love saying, "I'm sure you didn't mean to embarrass yourself, but only the bride wears white today."
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    Ugo777777 ⚫9h ago Should've obviously arranged for 10+ people to walk up to her and congratulate her on her wedding and acting super confused when she says she's not the bride. Maybe she would get the hint after 5 or 6... Maybe...
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