Entitled Groom Turns Bridezilla Toward Best Man Who's Hosting the Wedding at His House: 'Make sure you have it'

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    r/weddingshaming • 19 hr. ago Low-Wrongdoer-8203 My friend got a late diagnosis of ADHD and has become super entitled with it wanting everything to be inclusive. I am ok with this bit feel his demands are too excessive and demanding. For reference I haven't seen him in 5 years. Got these messages out of the blue and the wedding is in a week.
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    The wedding is going to be at our house and in the past every time he's come round he's made sure to use all my facilities like shower, swimming pool and eat from the fridge. He's not from an affluent background so I do feel like just giving him a pass when he comes to mine as I want him to feel welcome and looked after but sometimes feel he takes it too far.
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    I can get a bit cranky if I don't have a nap too I know it's a back to back day so can nip off during the speeches as I have ADHD so don't concentrate too well. It might be fine but just on the off chance can you make a spare bed up for me and I'll come back after the speeches. Cheers Also will you put lady gaga telephone on your playlist please my secret shame. Also forgot to say the pizza I only eat dominos mainly (gf base and mighty meaty with no sausages for one half and the other half will
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    0 Just thinking ahead before the wedding. Will there be somewhere for me to get showered and changed after the ceremony? I just like to freshen up as I sweat sometimes and I will want to change into my comfortable clothes. Also I know there's food but can you get me a pizza in before because I like to snack through out the day too I may need a bath but will only use the green radox too so make sure you have it in. Please keep it in the fridge as it makes it more refreshing
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    halfeatennachos • 20h ago Tell him to kick rocks. Or tell him, there is way too much on your plate and unfortunately you can't do any of this. And that you would appreciate his presence, but understand if he chooses not to go if the wedding is too much for him.
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    Auddidoo 19h ago This is insane. And I say that as someone who got a late diagnosis of ADHD. This isn't ADHD-related, it seems like he's incredibly entitled and oblivious to the fact that absolutely nothing about your wedding revolves around him.
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    Waste-Carpenter-8035 • 19h ago hallapenos
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    Big-Ambitions-8258 • 19h ago This isn't from adhd. This is him being entitled. I think you need to tell him that he'll have to find his own accommodations and sort out what he needs to do himself as you're busy. These requests aren't accommodating his adhd. They're just things he wants. But he should know that you don't always get what you want and just have to up. it
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    Team503 • 19h ago I have severe ADHD - none of the stuff he's talking about has anything to do with ADHD except not paying attention. And that's what meds are for. Kick him to the curb - politely say "Hey, I'd love to have you at the wedding, but I'm not a concierge or your mother. If you have special needs you'll need to arrange for those needs to be met yourself." Being neurodivergent doesn't mean you can abuse your status, and that's what he's doing.
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    1MorningLightMTN • 19h ago I have lots of ADHD friends, and a husband who thinks I would benefit from ADHD meds. I could never be friends with someone who thinks ADHD is a reason to need special food and shower accommodations. I accommodate food allergies and intolerances. A shower? Get a hotel room or just don't come.
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    • saltychica 19h ago I was mixed up. I thought he was getting married & he was asking you to do these things. Pretend he's joking. "Hilarious, mate. You always know how to make me laugh."
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    84aomame 19h ago Tell them to rent a hotel for their required shower and nap hahahaha. You should also shame them to all your friends. hahaha. This is not ADHD, this is entitlement. I have ADHD and the only thing i'd ask for would be a schedule with time and locations of where I'll need to be, I'd def eat before if I knew there wouldn't be something I like. I would probably request Telephone bc that's a banger.
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    ✓ RagingAardvark . 19h ago "Hey, our guest room won't be available, but we've held a block of rooms at [hotel] for out-of-town guests. Please feel free to get a room there for your shower and nap. You can also have pizza delivered there. Enjoy!"
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    loudlittle 19h ago Please don't give into any of this (Telephone on the playlist is fine).
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    • Ashamed_Tutor_478 19h ago my attention disorders are severe to the point where I catch myself almost leaving the house without a shirt on even when medicated. And I would never ever ever behave like such an entitled _ hat. this has nothing to do with ADHD. This is a personality problem, and this guy is a Congratulations on your wedding!
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