Father Confronts Kids After They Contact His ‘Affair Daughter’ Upon Learning She’s Rich, Leading to a Dispute With Their Mother: ‘They were just being kind to her’

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    AITA for being hurtful towards my children after I found out they had been contacting my “affair child"?
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    I have a daughter who is the result of an affair. I'm aware that makes me an a truly have no excuse. ɔle and I My wife is a saint who agreed to give me a second chance but
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    was very clear she did not want my daughter in her house. I agreed though I did want to be in my daughter's life. Due to some unfortunate circumstances my daughter,
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    daisy, came to live with us when she was 15. I made sure all of the labor fell on me as not inconvenience my wife. Understandably my other children did not want a relationship with daisy and I never pushed it.
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    Daisy married into a lot of money. Im talking about a man who thinks it's normal to use helicopters like cars and going to her house is like something out of downton abbey. My children met Daisys husband
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    once and I thought that was it but I recently got a text from Daisy saying "can you tell your legitimate kids to stop talking to me. Please and thank you" I was confused and she sent me screenshots of them
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    apologizing for not knowing her better and claiming they loved her. Daisy accompanied these texts with cash emojis. I confronted my kids and told them they had embarrassed me
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    and should be embarrassed about themselves. I said they wouldn't have sent those messages if she married the local mechanic and to leave her alone.
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    My kids were very hurt and my wife exploded and said how dare I call our kids embarrassments when they were being kind to their sister
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    peakpenguins. 7 hr. ago Sounds like everyone except Daisy sks here.
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    LA-forthewin. 6 hr. ago NTA, I'm team Daisy, your 'legitimate' kids and wife probably put her through hel while she was living with you. Good for her for declining any association with them now
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    Aromatic-Mushroom-85 7 hr. ago Sounds like someone is only considered family to your wife and "legitimate children" when it involves You NTA
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    christheleo1992. 7 hr. ago . edited 7 hr. ago Am I the only person confused as to how the family thought appropriate to have Daisy move in and the mom intentionally doesn't care for her and the siblings intentionally ignore her and don't build a relationship. Like the damage done to poor daisy's thoughts on "family" smh.
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    lapsteelguitar 6 hr. ago Assuming that Daisy had told them to stop contacting her, then your kids were WAY out of line. Not you. You had every right, and obligation, to tell them to stop. NTA
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    Bulky_Specialist9645 · 7 hr. ago ESH except Daisy.
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    WhisperWillow12. 6 hr. ago The entire situation reeks of conditional affection and financial opportunism. It's unfortunate that Daisy has become the inadvertent linchpin of this debacle. Money should never define family, but here it seems like it's the only currency your wife and other children recognize. Daisy deserves better. NTA.
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    elastin1 · 6 hr. ago I dont like you or your family
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    ennoSaL 5 hr. ago Isn't this the plot of Cinderella? Like almost to a tee except in this story the father is alive??
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    2-55 Comfortable-Focus123 · 7 hr. ago Not going to give you a judgement You did step up for Daisy after cheating on your wife. Your children are now blinded by money after treating Daisy shabbily (even though it was not their fault you cheated), I do not think this will get better.
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    hammersgirl86.5 hr. ago NTA for what you said to your "legitimate" kids. Obviously YTA for cheating and also for making your wife a promise that meant you wouldn't be a present parent for Daisy.
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    Your kids are a embarrassment. And I'm shocked your wife isn't horrifically embarrassed and furious to find out that her children have been pandering to their “affair sibling". She knows they weren't just trying to be nice. I wonder if she's seeing $$$ as well and coming around to the idea of Daisy. Honestly everyone except Daisy S KS.
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    Tifrubfwnab 3 hr. ago Honestly, they are like that because you allowed them to treat her differently. I feel bad for Daisy because she knew she wasn't wanted nor welcome.

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