'He has an ego and thinks he is always right': She Was Supposed to Marry Him, Instead He Secretly Got Her Dog Pregnant to Sell the Puppies

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    Posted by u/throwaway2937i 1 day ago AITA I'm thinking of breaking up with my bf because of what he did to my dog?
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    I got my 2 year old German Shepherd spayed and one of the forms I sign said if they found she was pregnant they would still spay her and that would terminate the pregnancy. I signed think thinking there wasn't any way she was pregnant. When the vet finished with the spay they told me she was pregnant but it was pretty early on and they still did the spay.
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    I was shocked because I don't allow her with any male dogs that aren't neutered. I couldn't think of when she could have had the opportunity. I was advised not to spay her too soon because of joint issues in German Shepards.
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    When my bf found out he was so mad. He had been telling me spaying or neutering ruined dogs and made them not have any drive. I have no idea why he thinks that but I did it anyway. He wouldn't talk to me for like a week. It's been a few months and yesterday a man knocks on our door and asks for my bf.
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    I stay in the living room and overhear him ask my bf where his puppy is and my bf said I spayed and terminated the litter. He promises the man he will give him the money back and I go to ask him what on earth he means. He tells me my bf had my dog mate with his German Shepard and he was
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    suppose to be getting one of the puppies. I was shocked and yelled at my bf for doing that when he knew I intended to spay her and never breed her. He was always telling me she deserves to have her bloodline passed on but I never through he would do this. He said the guy was lying as he was returning cash to him as apparent he had prepaid for a puppy. I'm so mad he won't even admit it and I'm thinking of breaking up with him. But we have been together for 3 years and are talking about getting en
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    My mom thinks I should try to forgive him as I'm getting older and can't afford to wait much longer for kids. He has an ego and thinks he is always right but I cannot believe he would do this.
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    Edit: thanks everyone for commenting. I think my instincts are correct and this is a really bad sign. I'm moving out and staying with a friend. Ill tell him on Monday after I finish moving as he left for the weekend and I don't want him interfering. I don't know what to do about the lease as we still have 4 months left but I'll talk to the landlady.
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    seekhelpffs · 1 day ago · edited 21 hr. ago So he was going to get paid for the one puppy, what about the other possible littermates? NTA, you never intended to breed your dog and he went behind your back to do exactly that and profit off her.
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    Edit: TIL what a stud fee is. Also I was mostly just trying to point out that he had no problem breeding then selling her dogs puppies without discussing it with her. 8.3k Reply Share
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    throwaway2937i OP 1 day ago . edited 1 day ago I'm sure he would want to try to sell the other puppies. I have no idea how he planned to keep the pregnancy a secret but he was probably only going to tell me when she was too far along for me to feel comfortable terminating the pregnancy.
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    Honestly I still feel guilty I terminated her very early pregnancy and I think he knows he would have gotten his way if the vet didn't spay her. 3.6k Reply Share
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    Tie Nervous9815 · 1 day ago. edited 1 day ago OMG! You're THINKING about breaking up with him?!?! Are you insane to even be questioning this? He lied to you. Ignored your wishes and is doubling down on his lies. Of course you're going to break up with him! 6.9k Reply Share
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    Wooden Door_1358 · 1 day ago Literally!! I'm like how is it a question on if you should break up with him???? 2.0k Reply Share
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    SnarkyQuibbler · 1 day ago How? Being raised by a mother who thinks she should put up with anything to start breeding as soon as possible. 1.5k Reply Share
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    Ghargoyle 1 day ago ΝΤΑ If he's willing to ignore how you want to take care of your dog, there's a good chance he'll ignore other decisions you make for yourself. There are plenty of stories about partners tampering with birth control. 6.4k Reply Share
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    z00k33per0304 · 1 day ago • Decisions ranging from how many kids you want to have, how you raise said kids, circumcision if you have a boy, what to do if something went wrong during labour (god forbid).
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    He's already shown you that no matter what you say or how strongly you feel about it he will absolutely steamroll your desires if given the choice and then lie to your face about it. Then to add insult to injury your mother will likely side with him because she's dense as concrete. 2.0k Reply Share
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    Top-Customer1055 1 day ago NTA. Out of this story I am angry at your mom more than anybody else she has some nerve. What your BF did was sneaky and it just show the type of man he is. And then lying about the situation. I would break up with him. The type of person he is I would walk away now 4.7k Reply Share
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    littlegnat 1 day ago Forreal. Your mom encouraging you to stay in a relationship with an untrustworthy man is very sad. You should NEVER settle down just bc anyone thinks you're getting "old" so you need to rush it. Eff that. 1.8k Reply Share

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