'Your loss 'bro'': Boss guilt trips an all-star employee after he's decidedly absent for a last-minute weekend work retreat, guy quits the next day after lining up a better job opportunity

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    "I have a stack of resumes of people just dying to get in here"
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    Boss yelled at me within earshot of my customers for spending labour day long weekend with my new wife instead of at a staff retreat.
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    On short notice my boss invited management (only in name, not in pay) to his cabin for a meeting on labour day weekend.
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    I just got married the week before and my wonderful new wife had a campsite booked for the long weekend, so it was a no brainer: I will spend labour day with my wife instead of the people I labour for.
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    That was apparently enough to warrant yelling at me within earshot of my customers (who were visibly uncomfortable after). A couple stand out comments from my impromptu employer feedback:
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    "I am really upset you couldn't make it to the cabin this past weekend. We had some good ideas for the restaurant and I want us all on the same page." I just replied "That's fine man, fill me in and I'll be on the same page".
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    "What's going on with you man? I am looking for someone who wants to immerse themselves in this job, entirely." To which I calmly replied "It's not a slight against the company, I just got married...and I did immerse myself in this job." He got angrier.
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    "I have a stack of resumes of people just dying to get in here". To which I thought "I am sure they will work as hard as I did for the amount of compensation I received". But I just calmly reiterated that I have always been hardworking, reliable, and their "right hand guy".
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    He got angrier. Stomped around. Paid out all the tips owing to staff except me...loudly exclaiming "and nothing for you" in front of the other staff. That's fine, I usually wait a month or more to receive my backlog of tips.
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    So their right hand guy just gave notice. I have a job lined up where I won't have to pickup anyone's slack AND I'll get benefits and retirement. Your loss "bro."
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    StolenWishes • 1h ago . "Good thing you've got that stack of resumes - | quit, effective immediately. Bye."
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    SpaceCrazyArtist • 1h ago I love the "I have a stack of resumes" argument. I always reply with "great! Please give them a call. Maybe one of them will happily accept on call employment without on call pay"
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    PiemarchGenes... • 32m ago The cojones to organize a quasi-mandatory work meeting on Labor Day weekend...
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    parkesc 1h ago I can only wonder what the others think of your boss's tantrum.
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    Ceilibeag 1h ago . Hope after you left you get a lawyer and sue for that missing tip payout. Nice of him to announce his wage theft to witnesses.
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    XxFrostxX 46m ago Who immerses themselves into a job that will fire you tmrw
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    Crochet_Anony... .57m ago I cannot imagine such a moron being a manager (yes I can). The staff's holiday to be spent with that person? Oh, no. Congratulations on the new job with benefits and retirement!
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    United_Bug_98... • 49m ago I'm curious. Was this 'retreat' paid time? Even if it was, it's ridiculous to expect you to randomly give up your free time for it. .. that guy and his crappy job.
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    ThunkAsDrinkle... 52m ago When you quit, mention that your team brainstormed a bunch of new ideas on how to improve the restaurant during your labour day retreat. Be sure to thank your boss for coming up with the suggestion that it should no longer involve your labor.
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    StashedandPai... 44m ago Loving your job is a trap. Your job is a narcissist, your value to it is inherently tied to how much of yourself youre willing and able to give. And like a narcissist, no matter what you give, it will never be enough.
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    Because when you boil it down, the purpose of most jobs is simply to make as much money as quickly as possible for the boss. And since your boss will never have enough money and it will never come fast enough, nothing you do will ever be enough for them.
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    Come in on a weekend to catch up? Your job will start expecting that all the time and will grow "concerned about your motivation" if you dont do it. Answer an email after hours? The next time you don't, they are
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    "concerned about your dedication". Do double the work to fill in for someone who's on leave or for an open position? The second you assert boundaries or express concern about this,
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    you arent "being a team player". Use vacation time that is allocated to you? They'll question your "priorities" and "commitments". Surpass whatever financial goals or performance metrics they set for you? Great! Now next
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    month double it! and if you don't..."we're concerned about your devotion and consistency". Get verbally abused by a boss and stand up for yourself? If they dont fire you on the spot, "we're concerned about the cultural fit".
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    And like a narcissist, if you dont like the way you're being treated, its your fault. If you just worked harder your job wouldnt have to punish you. If you worked as hard as your boss and were
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    as smart as him, you too would be rich and could tell other people what to do so you can get whatever you want. But you're not rich, and its your fault, its
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    because you didnt work hard enough. Now work harder, make sure the boss gets his money, and dont be so ungrateful, or they'll find someone miserable and desperate enough to tolerate what you cant.

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