Mom Defends Freshman Daughter’s Right to Say 'No' After Boy’s Homecoming Proposal Goes Viral When His Entitled Parents Record and Post It on Social Media

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    Dusty r/dustythunder ⚫ 4 days Casaliciousmom Am I the for letting my daughter say "no" to a boy who asked her to homecoming??
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    My daughter is a freshman in high school and she was really looking forward to this first homecoming dance. She is a cheerleader and was at an away football game and one of the boys on the football team made a sign and decorated a football
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    and asked her to the dance. The boys parents were there recording and were repeatedly asking her "what do you say Jerzi" "what's your answer" she was saying things like "thank you so much" and "this was so nice" but the questions continued and she eventually just said "ok". For
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    a little backstory about my daughter she struggles with anxiety, and has a hard time in social situations like this. Her dad was an alcoholic and died 2 years ago, which has really changed the way she had to grow up!! I moved me and my kids back
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    home a couple months ago and we live in a very small town, so I had a video of the interaction sent to me before Jerzi was even on the bus to come home. My daughter and I are very close, so I knew that she was absolutely dying on the inside, I could see it
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    all over her face. When she got home she was telling me all about it, and come to find out she has never even spoken to the boy who asked her to the dance. She kept saying she just wants to with her friends or see if go someone else asks her, but she didn't want to hurt the boys
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    feelings. I told her it was ok to say no to him if she didn't want to go with him. Some of her friends were telling her to just go with him, there will be other dances, some of them were telling her to say no...but someone said to her "I would say
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    yes to whoever asked me, cuz | was raised better than that"... which, yes that is exactly the way I was raised, but I don't want my daughter to feel like she has to say yes to a boy just because that's what he wants... She's allowed to have a say too!!! So
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    while I do feel bad for the boy that asked her, I also feel like it's ok to say no...does that make me an ?!? EDITED TO ADD/ UPDATE OK, so I'm just following up a little bit first of all thank you guys for all the comments I really do
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    appreciate it and feel supported!!! During the whole situation, I had multiple parents reach out to me, some of them being family, and telling me they wouldn't let her go with him, that his family is "different”. I have forever told my kids they can
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    ALWAYS use me as an out for anything!! I will always take the heat!! I still know a lot of people around here, but I have no idea who these people are. To make things even worse...The mom went home and posted the video on Facebook (I had it sent to
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    me)saying that her baby boy had finally asked someone to a dance and they said yes...and you can clearly see her in the video very uncomfortably say "ok"!! The day after she had sent him a very nice message explaining how she didn't want to go with him for
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    her first homecoming, how it would be awkward since they have never even spoke and she just wants to go with friends, etc. the boy has sent the message to several people and the message she sent has been going around her school, with people either
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    agreeing with what she said, or saying she was to nice, or even to mean. Which led me to tell her this is a prime example of you can never please everybody!! This whole situation has been a lot for her and he keeps trying to
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    text her like excessively which resulted in her just unadding him as she is very tired of all of this. I'm about to the point of reaching out to the parents!!

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