17-Year-Old Son Stands Up to Mom Who Tried to Steal His Inheritance from His Late Father for Stepsiblings’ College Tuition: 'I asked if she really thinks he'd want the money to be used on random kids'

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Isabella Penn
Oct 25, 2024 5:00 PM EDT

When this 17-year-old lost his dad, he was left an inheritance meant for his future—specifically to cover college tuition. But instead of going the college route, he decided to pursue a trade and save the money for big life milestones, like buying a house. Makes sense, right? Well, apparently not to everyone.

Even though this mom was divorced from his dad long before he passed, his mom had the nerve to suggest that the inheritance should go toward his stepsiblings' college tuition. She even tried to guilt him, claiming it was what his father would have wanted. The son, not falling for it, asked if she seriously thought his dad would want his hard-earned money spent on "random kids" who weren't even his own. Burn. Luckily for him, the money is in a trust that his mom can't touch. So no matter how entitled they act, they're not getting their hands on his cash. Double burn.

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    My mom and her husband think that since I have the money and won't be using it for college, I should give it to my stepbrother and half siblings and let them pay it back if I insist but that I could also just give it to them as a way to help them with their futures and be a good brother.
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    AITA for not letting my inheritance be used for my step and half siblings when I'm not going to college?
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    I (17M) won't be going to college after high school and instead I'm going to learn a trade. I feel like it works better for my skills and generally would be a better job for me. My mom isn't super happy about it but she knows
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    college has been pushed on me for almost two years and my mind hasn't changed. So she's accepted that she won't change my mind and nobody will. Here's why my post is here. My
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    dad died when I was 6. When he was 9 my grandmom (his mom) died and it was due to medical negligence/malpractice and my grandpa, uncle and dad were awarded compensation, a huge amount too, for her death.
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    Granddad split it between my dad and uncle. He was working and received social security benefits for them because grandmom died and he knew she'd want them to be taken care of above everything. When my
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    dad realized he was sick he made sure that money would go to me, his only kid. He set it up in a trust and left my granddad and uncle in charge of it. The money is a lot. Like I could easy be debt free
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    going to college with it and have some left over if I was smart about it. My mom knew about the money but cannot access it. My mom has been married to her husband for 9 years. My
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    parents were separated when dad died, btw. Her husband has a son who's a year younger than me and has a medical condition. My mom also has two kids with her husband/my half siblings.
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    Because of my stepbrother's medical condition and his mom not being in his life or his mom's family, they don't really have any savings for his college anymore (they had to spend it for some medical stuff) and my half siblings have nothing either.
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    My mom and her husband think that since I have the money and won't be using it for college, I should give it to my stepbrother and half siblings and let them pay it back if I insist but that I could also just give it to them as a way to help them with their futures and be a good brother.
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    I said no and I told them | wouldn't change my mind. Mom asked why and I said it's my inheritance from my dad. I could buy a house with it. I could protect my future with it. I could save it for my future kids. But I
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    don't want to risk it not being paid back when it was dad's way of securing my future. She told me he'd want me to do this and I asked her if she really thinks he'd want the money he got from losing his mom to be used on random kids that aren't me. She
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    told me they're not random to me so yes. She believes he'd want me to be a good brother. She told me I should really give it more consideration. AITA?
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    BeeJackson • 1d ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [43] NTA Congratulations on protecting - yourself and your future. You have considered your mothers request and your answer is still no. If you lend them money you won't be able to get it back without suing them. If they can borrow from you then they can borrow educational funds in other ways. You shouldn't be their only source of funding. They will take your money tend pretend like it was a gift.
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    Make sure your grandfather and uncle are aware of the situation and your plans so your mother can't go behind your back. Unfortunately sometimes people act this way when large amounts of money are involved. Good luck with trade school and your future!
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    Melody Raine • 1d ago • Professor Emeritass [84] NTA it is not your responsibility to provide for your stepfather's child or for your half-siblings. Your mother is being disgustingly greedy trying to guilt you into taking care of her responsibilities. If I were to be brutally honest, it was irresponsible of your mother to procreate with a man who couldn't support the child he has even once, much less twice.
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    • Only-Ingenuity7889 1d ago Edited 23h ago • Aficionado [19] No, your Dad wouldn't "want you to do this". He intentionally set up the trust for you alone, so her plan would never happen. You would never get that lent money back Your Dad left you a tremendous gift for a head start in life, no matter how you use it. Honor him and his wishes. NTA
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    . HumanPandaSinger 1d ago • NTA. This is your inheritance, given to you by your father to secure your future, not anyone else's. It's incredibly unfair for your mom to pressure you into using it for your step and half-siblings, especially when that money is meant to help you in life, whether for trade school, buying a house, or other personal goals. You're being smart by protecting it, and your father left it to you for a reason. Helping them is not your responsibility, and it's wrong
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    for anyone to guilt you into giving up something that was meant for you. Stay firm― it's your future on the line.
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