Man Goes Behind Wife’s Back and Reveals to Her Pregnant Sister That She Is Being Cheated On, Leading To the End of Her Marriage and Possibly His Own

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Bar Mor Hazut • Senior Editor
Nov 8, 2024 8:00 PM EST

We do not wish it on anybody, but there is something we have to ask. If you were being cheated on and someone close to you found out, do you wish they had told you or that they kept the information to themselves? Honestly, It would surprise us to find out if anyone out there would have preferred not to know. But we can tell you for sure that if we had that sort of information, we would not hold back. We firmly believe that if someone is living a lie, the person who is supposed to be closest to them deserves to know.

That is why we fully support the man in this Reddit story, who decided to tell his sister-in-law that her husband is cheating on her, despite his wife's disapproval. This not only led to his pregnant SIL's divorce but possibly his own, as the man was alarmed by how easily his wife was willing to keep this secret quiet.

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    Today I told my sil the truth, I went to her place and told her everything, she was doubtful and she asked me to leave, after a few hours my sil called me and she was crying and said what I said was the truth and she shouldn't have doubted me and kicked me, she said she's leaving
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    Aita for going behind my wife's back and telling her pregnant sister that she's being cheated on
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    I have been married to my wife for 3 years, I am 27 and she's 26, my sil is 30 and my pos bil is 31, I always had a close relationship with my sil, we are friends, also has a decent connection between
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    my bil, not that close but we often talk and get along My wife and her sister didn't get along as much as you would expect from siblings, it wasn't just
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    normal siblings rivalry but constant fights and arguments Anyway 3 weeks ago when I was having dinner with my friends, I saw my bil with another woman, they were just eating, I didn't
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    think much of it, I wanted to go and greet him but i kept talking to my friends, after a while I saw that he gave a light kiss to this woman I was so shocked
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    I decided to not confront him and when I got back to my home | told my wife everything, I told her that her sister is getting cheated on and we need to tell her, my wife said we should talk to my bil
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    instead of telling her sister and we should not break their marriage because her sister is pregnant I was like ? So what is she's pregnant? Her husband is a
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    cheat, I tried to convince my wife multiple times that we should tell her sister the truth, I told her that I know you guys don't get along but she's still your sister and this isn't right but she asked me to stay out of it
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    I tried my best to convince my wife but she either ignored me or said we shouldn't break their marriage, I had enough of her and yesterday I told her that I am coming clean to my sil, she and I
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    have a great bond and I CANT AND WONT betray her, my wife said if I tell her the truth she will not talk to me, I replied I won't talk to you either if you don't want to do what's right
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    Today I told my sil the truth, I went to her place and told her everything, she was doubtful and she asked me to leave, after a few hours my sil called me and she was crying and said what I said
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    was the truth and she shouldn't have doubted me and kicked me, she said she's leaving I asked her where would you go? Do you have have money? She said she does but not that much,
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    I wired her a bit and said she should call me if she needs help and she thanked me and said she will only use the money I sent if it's necessary otherwise she will return
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    My bil called my wife and well my wife lashed onto me and said I ruined HER family and HER sister's life, I said I thought the moment we got married your family is mine and my family is
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    yours? Anyway why i are you defending that pos so much? What about your sister? She didn't reply to me and she's not talking to me either, I tried to talk to her and convince her that
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    it was the right thing to do, but she wouldn't talk to me so I said fine stay angry and if you want to divorce me then go ahead I think I have nuked my marriage, do not know if what I did was truly right
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    unusuallysunny76 • 3d ago • Sounds like your wife supports cheaters and that should be worrying to you. NTA.
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    Traditional_Hour_483 OP • 3d ago I thought about it and I am concerned about it but I somewhat think she just asked me to not tell her because my sil is pregnant and it will cause her more stress, that's just what I think but the truth is, if I
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    hide it and support my wife I am in the wrong, if I tell her the truth after she gives birth then still I am wrong If I hide it forever then I am still wrong, like what am I supposed to do? Cover up for the betrayer and not help my family? Even my wife is angry at me and probably will lose her if I already haven't lost her
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    adobeacrobatreader • 3d ago NTA, if I were you, I would sleep with one eye open. Your wife has no moral standards.
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    Traditional_Hour_483 OP •3d ago I truly have been thinking about this, that she might just be......... But I love and trust my wife and I was thinking she wanted me to not tell her because my sil is pregnant
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    and women knows how stressful pregnancy and after pregnancy is and she might have thought that she needs support from her husband? Idk nothing here makes sense to me There was nothing for me to suspect of her cheating on me
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    Nolmagination7892 • 3d ago I'm surprised your wife wouldn't tell her sister.
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    Traditional_Hour_483 OP⚫ 3d ago • So am I, what I think is that no matter how strained both sisters relationship is, atleast a sibling would have the back of their sibling especially when they are pregnant
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    but she didn't even try to help her sister and angry at me I am like ? Is this really the woman I got married to?
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