Employee gets passed over for promotion in favor of external candidate who quits after 3 weeks, leading to a dispute when employee refuses to train another replacement: ‘I have no motivation’

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    Passed over for promotion in favour of external candidate. Now that candidate quit after 3 weeks. Do I have right to be upset?
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    Hi all, So my boss made empty promises to me all year verbally saying that a new job would be opening and I would be promoted. When the job was posted I was really excited and
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    both my bosses encouraged me to apply. They then interviewed me and I got really excited!! Well, one week later they pull me into the office and say "we are going with an external candidate with more
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    experience, I hope you are happy you had the chance to interview and see the process". I was pretty upset that they would waste my time interviewing me knowing they had someone in
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    mind... they should have had a transparent conversation with me instead. Anyways, this position came up due to a vacancy also, so I was already working over time and doing some aspects of the job.
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    Then I had the task of training this new person with added stress. The new person accepted another job offer and resigned after 3 weeks. Now they have to repost the
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    job, interview for another month, and I am now unmotivated and looking for other employment. There is no way I am working anymore overtime or I also could care less about my job rn. Am I right to be upset?
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    CodyRyan86 It su 's getting passed over. But the reality is this person came in and probably had a significantly better interview. It's unfortunate but people make decisions based on interviews all the time. I always
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    tell people internally you have to think that you are interviewing everyday you come to work. A lot of times people think they are dominating the work place when really they are probably meeting
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    expectation. Doesn't mean they don't have the capacity to do the job, just means they are releasing their full potential and it costs. them opportunities.
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    hair... OP Unfortunately they betted one someone based off a one hour interview, when they have worked with me for the past 2 years and know my work ethic and loyalty.
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    The person put in no effort for the first three weeks and left as soon as a job with more pay came along. You cannot get a full picture of someone from one interview.
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    CodyRyan86 No, you definitely cannot get a full picture of anyone from 1 interview. I agree. But that candidate must have said some pretty amazing things. Externals have the benefit of no one knowing where the skeletons are
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    buried. No matter how good you are or your work ethic is, there are always predetermined issues that your managers have seen going in. It suks, but that's how it goes
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    hairandbeautyy OP Yeah it is really for them, now they are very embarrassed. Especially because alot of people in the office had heard I had applied and were rooting for me.
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    Defiant Review 1582 Loyalty is no longer something that should be given to employers. History has proven that it's a one way street
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    veggie_lauren So the same thing happened to me and I was very upset as they kinda led me on that I would be in the position. I started applying for other jobs as soon as I found out. About a month
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    later I left for an awesome company. The new guy only had one day to train with me (I should have refused to train). I'm loving my new job and I'm making $40k more plus they're
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    planning on promoting me again soon. I'm so glad I left. The new guy is still there but the department over there is not doing great.
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    hairandbeautyy OP I'm really happy that it worked out for you :) congratulations
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    Easy-Job3814 But you should be "happy you had the chance to interview".
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    darthcaedusiiii Top 1% Commenter Don't be upset when people show their true colors. Be glad you found out as early as you did.
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    CompetitiveMeal1206 Happened to my wife. Many people quit or transferred in protest, including my wife. The new manager didn't last 9 months. It became a revolving door of outside hires for the next 2 years until they finally begged my wife to come back.
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    Lanky-Owl6622 • 5d ago. Do NOT train another replacement and make sure your bosses know you won't be willing to do so. They f ed up and ate wasting everyone's time. You need to leave, your leaderships….ks.
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