Woman Catches Husband in Steamy Affair, She Serves Him Divorce Papers in Hotel Lobby And Lies That His Mistress Tipped Her Off

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    After I had moved certain things out of the house without his knowledge and convinced him to take his name off of my car, I handed him the divorce papers of the hotel lobby he was in waiting for Rebecca. I had tons of pictures of them together
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    r/AITAH Unfair-Tradition5566 AITA For Refusing To Come Clean And Ruining My Ex- Husband's Relationship?
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    I (42f) divorced my ex-husband "Chad" (42m) for cheating with his current wife "Rebecca" (30f) a few years back.
    via dd
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    I'll spare the details but basically something Chad did set off alarm bells so I did some snooping and discovered a paper trail that led me to Rebecca. I was furious and hurt but instead of
    via dd
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    confronting him about it then, I waited and collected evidence. I found Rebecca on social media and joined one of the online clubs she was in. We had the same
    via xdx
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    interests so it wouldn't be that be of a red flag if either Chad or Rebecca found out and I just played it cool.
    via dd
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    I waited until after our youngest was in school so I could get a part-time job and got Chad to pay for my certification so I could get a better job. During this time
    via ss
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    he would go on trips, book hotels, buy gifts, etc. with a "secret" account that I I was able to access because I know Chad well enough to guess his passwords and
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    that he only sets his alerts when someone tries to use it. After I had moved certain things out of
    via dd
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    the house without his knowledge and convinced him to take his name off of my car, I handed him the divorce papers of the hotel lobby he was in waiting for
    via dd
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    Rebecca. I had tons of pictures of them together but only showed three of them when he tried to deny and two more to his family when he tried to send them
    via dd
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    after me. Chad was up for a big promotion so I told him that we could either get this divorce over with or I could kick up a fuss which would make his
    via dd
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    employers reconsider his position. After I made it clear that I didn't want any alimony and that he could keep his retirement we went our separate ways.
    via dd
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    Shortly after that Rebecca got pregnant and they got married and she aggravates to no end, but since my kids never complained I was willing to just suck it up.
    via dd
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    Then recently, Rebecca decided to get a little arrogant and publicly criticized my parenting because my child didn't do so well at the end of the school year and
    via dd
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    how she'd raise her child to be "smart". In the heat of the moment (along with some built up anger) I lied and said it wasn't very smart of her to tip off the wife that
    via dd
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    she was the AP. Chad wasn't there, but his mom and sister were and he called me that night to ask about it. He always wondered how I found out and instead of telling the truth I said that Rebecca was
    via dd
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    the one who tipped me off with the photos and told me when/where they'd be. And for some strange reason Chad asked me to keep our kids for the whole summer which I was willing to do in
    via dd
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    exchange for getting them on Christmas. I heard a few weeks later that Chad and Rebecca didn't have a very good summer. Rebecca has been messaging constantly
    via dd
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    about this but if it doesn't have anything to do with my kids I, SILENT MODE. I was talking to my brother about this and he thinks that while it's understandable WHY
    via dd
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    I lied that it was still wrong, but since I don't care about Rebecca or Chad I have to ask AITA?
    via dd
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    afreerideeveryday NTA they cheated so of course they don't trust each other. She not only got with a married man but is also criticizing you not fair
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    Top_Put1541 Rebecca is fine with people lying. She cheerfully spread her legs for a man who was lying to another woman about their family life, so obviously she gets off on dishonesty.

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