So you two just started talking or even just started officially dating and it's great! But… It's just too soon to join each others' families Christmases. You haven't even really told your parents you were kind of sort of seeing someone currently, so to just show up with your new bae might be a bit surprising. Plus, what if this new relationship doesn't actually work out? Maybe three months from now you'll be wondering who that person even was that was crushing so hard on that person you almost skipped family holiday for. It's too early to tell! You have to have them experience a few different seasons with you before you bring them over for the holidays. Maybe you should even wait to introduce them to the folks at a less stressful time? Like, when you're just back home for something silly like a friend's baby's first birthday—maybe go out to dinner with them and your new man? Whatever you decide, you're going to miss them this Christmas, so here are some memes to send each other.