Woman’s family heirloom given to brother’s selfish fiancée despite it being rightfully hers in the will, she resorts to legal action to get it back: “I'm going to press charges for stealing”

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Jan 12, 2025 1:00 PM EST

Things that have sentimental value to us, are just that – sentimental. It's not about the money, the glam, or the gold. It's about the meaning behind it; it's about who owned it and our relationship to them. When your grandma gives you her old, antique pearl earrings from her past, it means something. It meant something to her, and now you can carry its meaning past your grandmother's life. Maybe she got it in her home country of Czechoslovakia, maybe it meant everything to her in her youth, in her transcending years between girlhood and adulthood. Maybe it can mean the same for her granddaughters, until it's stolen by your brother for his selfish girlfriend. There's no slap in the face like someone who isn't even family getting a family heirloom, especially when it's written for you in the will. 

This brings us to the story below. In this story, the protagonist is a woman who feels wronged by her family. She was always extremely close with her grandmother, and her grandmother left her her wedding ring in the will. Instead of getting it when she turns 30 like promised, she sees it on the hand of her future sister-in-law. 

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    AITAH for threatening legal action against my mom, brother, and future SIL for stealing the ONLY inheritance I have from my grandmother?

    "You have one week to return the ring"
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    I've been receiving messages nonstop from my maternal family and my siblings, and it has me second guessing if what I'm doing is going too far.
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    This past Christmas, I saw on social media that my brother proposed to my future SIL, who we'll call Amy. I was initially happy for them until I saw the ring, which Amy posted photos of. I immediately recognized it as my grandmother's engagement ring, and phoned my mom to ask
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    if she had given my brother the ring as a placeholder. She brushed me off, saying that no, she gave him the ring on purpose because I hate Christmas and Amy LOVES it.
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    Context: I had always been closer to my paternal side of the family (especially my grandma). My grandmother passed away last year, and the only inheritance | got is her engagement ring. I was not meant to receive this ring until I'm 30. My grandmother LOVED Christmas, and it showed
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  • Why is it relevant if she likes Christmas or not? If the ring is hers in the will, then it shouldn't matter. But also, why isn't she allowed to get it until she's 30? What if she wants it for her engagement ring and she's engaged before she's 30? 

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    in her engagement ring (it's an emerald cut diamond with tiny circle rubies and oval emeralds to look like holly). Also, I didn't. always hate Christmas. Two years back, I lost my BF of ten years, my childhood BFF, and my sorority. sister in a car accident coming home from a Christmas party that
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    we all intended. I have been in therapy, struggling with survivor's guilt, but am doing better now.
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    I told my mom that the ring technically was meant to be mine and that she couldn't take it. She told me that she had a box of my grandmother's jewelry and I could just pick something else. I was stewing for a few days before contacting my paternal uncle, who is the executor. He was
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    furious and told me that my mom had said she was going to give me the ring as a Christmas gift. He then said he could be in touch with a lawyer if I wanted to press charges. We talked for a bit more before hanging up.
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    Armed with this information, I texted my mom, brother, and future SIL, saying that I had been in touch with my uncle and that I would press charges if the ring was not returned to either me or my uncle. My brother tried to say he really wanted to use the ring, that since I hated Christmas that I
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  • Imagine suing your own family…

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    didn't deserve it. I let them text me, using their threats as future evidence. I told them they had a week to return the ring or I'd follow through with the police.
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    Now, my mother's side of the family, as well as my other siblings, are hounding me. They all think I'm blowing things up. I'm not, I know I'm not, but with how everybody is acting I feel like I'm going crazy.
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    AITAH for threatening legal action against my mom, brother, and SIL for stealing my ONLY inheritance?
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    Writing_Dreams_2 • 7h ago NTA, that's YOUR ring! Your mom, bro, and SIL have NO claim to it! File that report!
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    sa... • 7h ago Edited 6h ago If I was SIL I would be absolutely mortified and immediately return the ring and seriously reconsider my fiancé was thinking.
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    NTA and absolutely sue this is so unconscionable. And because "you don't like Christmas" is masterpiece of gaslighting. I mean if anything it would make the ring even more important to you as it is the one beautiful thing that can give an utterly devastating traumal some hope.
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    At a minimum your mom not even asking you is AH territory but this almost amounts to NC and i always think people exaggerate that need but wow.
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    One-Low1033 • 7h ago NTA Your mother is, as well as your brother and future SIL. Give them a very specific deadline and be very specific that if it's not met, you will file a report with the police.
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    RaymondBeaumont • 7h ago "Hi, I'm surprised to hear that you think people should be okay when other's steal their valuables. Does that mean I can come by your house and steal your stuff, and you will be fine
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    with it or are you only okay with stealing if it's done to someone else?" Just send this to anyone hounding you.
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    Short-Negotiation... 7h ago NTA they stole an item that holds sentimental value and actual money value. Take that action that was given to YOU they had no claim over it
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