24-year-old sister has an affair baby with her 26-year-old sister's husband, the sister's parents demand the jilted wife house the cheater sister after the husband kicked her out: 'My parents called me disgusting or turning my back on her and the baby'

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Emmy Pratt • Writer and Editor
Jan 16, 2025 1:00 PM EST

It's incredibly easy to overstate the dubious morals of cheaters. I don't think that Ingrid Bergman should've spent as many years of her career as she did in retreat from Hollywood for the sole crime of having an affair, especially because that affair-turned-marriage created someone as wonderful as IIsabella Rossellini. If you've been tuned into Mulaney discourse over the past 4 years, you've probably seen some parasocial people bemoaning the horrible moral transgressions of John Mulaney for having an affair baby with Olivia Munn after being in a relationship with his wife for 8 years. 

While it's easy for some to condemn cheaters as unsavable sinners, it's just as easy for me to brush aside these incidents as plot points in the lives of artists I love and respect. If I were to write off every author, actor, comedian, or singer who had ever cheated on a partner, I'd have nobody to stan.

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  • The story before you bears little resemblance to the inconsequential extramarital affairs of the rich and the famous. The younger sister in this story committed an act of betrayal so vicious and careless that she should never expect to be forgiven by her older sister, but she and her parents feel otherwise.

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    AITA for not helping my sister who became homeless just after she gave birth to her and my soon to be ex-husband's baby?

    My sister (24f) and I (26f) were really close our whole lives and we moved away from our parents together when she was 18 and I was 20. I met my (soon to be) ex- husband here and we got married and my sister stayed close. We spent a lot of time. together. Then a few months ago
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    I learned my sister was pregnant and my husband was the father. I ended my marriage to him immediately and I told my sister I wanted nothing more to do with her and she was on her own. I had some of her stuff at my place and left it at my ex's place for her.
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    For the rest of the pregnancy they were living together and then he wouldn't let her back in after the baby was born. She called our parents from the hospital and told them she had nowhere to go. That he was looking for custody and didn't
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    want her back and I wasn't answering her calls. So they called me and after I heard them explain what was going on I told them it wasn't my problem. They tried to argue but I wasn't having any of it.
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    She got a place at a shelter for single parents and she's still there several weeks on. With the custody dispute she can't move back to our parents and I am still refusing to help her out. My parents are angry because I won't even take her calls or reply to any messages she's sent. I actually blocked her because I knew she
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    wouldn't stop. My parents don't know that part. But they're telling me I should be ashamed of myself for turning my back on her and the baby. I told my parents | owe her and the baby nothing. I told them it was just a shame she didn't choke on his when they were sleeping together behind my back.
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    My parents called me disgusting for leaving them homeless. That I have room and could help. AITA?
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    01happynewyorker Okay, your sister can't stay with your parents. Why can't your parents pay for an apartment or have family help out? Why does it have to be you? NTA! That's one crazy bleeping sister. NTA! Your parents don't want to deal with the situation and yet they want you to take on the responsibility to help?
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    Popular-Anywhere-462 especially if the kid's father wants to take care of his kid full time, why drag OP into a custody battle of an irrelevant kid whose parents are not welcome into OP's life.
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    jleek9 Give the child to the father if he is able to take care of it and the mother is not.
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    JorgitoEstrella Also the mother sounds double selfish she would rather the kid to be homeless than to give it to dad.
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    Upbeat_Vanilla_7285 So your parents were ok with her scr wing around with your husband and getting pregnant? Nah..keep them all blocked. Not your circus!
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    LunaPerry 1980 Well, we all know who the golden child is.
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    herejusttoargue909 NTA BI d doesn't equal responsibility Anyone saying "it's not the babies fault" is ridiculous.. The responsibility lies on the PARENTS not the aunt, uncle, grandparents, strangers etc The dad is a
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    The mom is a Grandparents should be sending her money to get into a hotel.. also, since she's homeless she NEEDS TO GO HOME to her parents. Custody battle or not she's gonna lose the kid because she doesn't have a stable home for the kid.. Why suffer in a shelter until then Consequences of one's actions
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    EsmeTidy FACTS! This is a consequence of her betrayal, not your actions. Your sister shattered your trust and chose this path; you have no obligation to clean up the mess she made.
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    ImAnNPCsoWhat NTA. Good job standing your ground and having boundaries. Your sister will figure her shout eventually, but that's not your concern. Your parents are on thin ice for trying to force you to help that backstabber.
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    Fantastic_Car3747 OP So far my parents act like I'm supposed to care more about what she's going through than what she put me through. And that won't be happening.
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    waxedgooch Ask your father how he would feel if his brother f ed his wife, got her pregnant, and then they moved in together? Or your mom if her sister did the same ask them to explain it to eachother, on the phone with you, and if you like their answers THEN you will take her call (but of course you never will, do not take her call)
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    HorrorLavishness9462 NTA You're in a no win situation. Your family betrayed you. Your parents don't have your back. I'd go very low contact at the moment. Write an email today saying everything you want to say, why you're hurt and how there's no easy solution and why your relationship has changed. But don't send it. Get as much sleep as you can tonight, look back over at the email, tomorrow morning, if you still feel the same, send it.
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    dalealace NTA. She blew up your life. Now she is reaping the consequences of her actions. Your exhusband is the real absolute scum though.
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    fuzzy_mic Where is baby daddy sleeping? Why can't your parents let new mom and the baby stay with them, let baby daddy sleep on the street. You are in a unique position. The baby needs a place to sleep. Dad, baby mom and grandparents need to figure a way to get a roof over the baby's head. Because of the affair, you are the only family member who is absolved from responsibility for this kid. ΝΤΑ.
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    Fantastic_Car3747 OP My parents live in another state. She can't leave the state with the baby so can't be with them. He's in a place of his own.
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    AJourneyer FAFO She did. Literally. ΝΤΑ
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