Mom faces judgment for packing daughter processed school lunch, starts debate on parenting and nutrition: 'This is what every millennial ate growing up'

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Ally Perry • Writer and Editor
Feb 11, 2025 4:00 PM EST

Sometimes the hard part of parenting isn't dealing with kids, but facing the opinions of other adults and parents. At its worst, it can feel like there are people just waiting to judge coming from all sides, whether they have a good reason to do so or not. 

While pretty much any part of being a parent can fall victim to unsolicited opinions, one of the more common topics that is focused on is children's diets. Things like not cooking often enough or dealing with picky eaters can be enough to make outsiders feel like they have a say in what a parent should be feeding their child. 

It is true that what kids eat can affect how they develop, but every mom and dad out there has slightly different ideas of what is acceptable when it comes to feeding children. It is no surprise that it makes for some heated internet debate.

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  • This is exactly what was triggered by one mom who posted a picture of what she gave her daughter for her school lunch. Posting to Facebook a photo of mostly prepackaged foods and a caption that insisted she was “still a magic mom”, once the post spread to other social media it began to cause controversy. Twitter had some strong opinions on the matter.

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    Sarah Fields @SarahisCensored Sorry, but no. This isn't food, it's garbage. This is not normal. This is setting your child up for failure. Make healthy normal again.
    via SarahisCensored
  • 02
    . Follow This was my child's lunch today. Nothing cut up in a cute shape. No hand written note. There's not theme or decorative lunch box. Nothing she could heat up. No separate containers. Fruit thrown in a plastic bag. Sometimes I throw in a little pizzaz. Something extra. Sometimes I yell as she is getting out at school drop off "oh crop, hot lunch today!" And guess what? I'm still a magic mom #normalizingnormal
    via SarahisCensored
  • 03
    R SMUCKERS UNBEATABLY SOFT BREAD Baked Fresh Uncrustables Thaw&Eat! Peanut Butter & Strawberry Jam Sandwich GUARANTEED Cheetos Crychy FRES UNTIL PRINTED DA 306C2 248124 080 12 160 CALORIES PER PKG ET WT OZ158g EESE FLAVORED SNACKS FRUIT FU ROL FRUIT LAVORED SNACKS 502 OREO VANILLA YOCRUNCH OGURT T WITH O ITH OREC 602 (11
    via SarahisCensored
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    cindi c @cindicheever Replying to @SarahisCensored ACTUALLY! My kids ate that kind of junk. However, I have always eatten healthful foods and I'm a certified health & fitness coach & studied nutrition since I was 12. However, I wasn't going to force my choices on them. Now years later, they eat healthy. Because of my example, not because I kept anything from them.
    via cindicheever
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    Sarah Fields @SarahisCensored Your kids ate that kind of junk because you provided it to them. Take some responsibility. Jeez.
    via SarahisCensored
  • 06
    sloth @theopposum1234 Replying to @SarahisCensored Or, you can just be happy that a kid isn't going hungry.
    via theopposum1234
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    Mrs. A @agreatdayinnc Replying to @SarahisCensored Eh I would make a few changes, like a homemade sandwich, and veggie straws instead of Cheetos and a gogurt(dye free), instead of ores yogurt, Aldi dye free gummies....but overall I don't disagree w/her. I don't do fancy, but you can still do healthy quick snacks
    via agreatdayinnc
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    DUMB B @dumbbitchzine Replying to @SarahisCensored Can't she just make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, give a piece of cheese, an actual fruit, yogurt and cookie with it? The processed slop literally tells you the real food it is based off
    via dumbbtchzine
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    emily may ✶ @emilykmay Replying to @SarahisCensored this is what every millennial ate growing up lol
    via emilykmay
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    Autism Health Tips @KBr_enthusiast Replying to @SarahisCensored It doesn't have to be hard to do better. My "easy" lunches for my kid might be canned refried beans, leftover meat from dinner, bag of cheerios (sure not ideal but better than cheetos), a banana. Prepackaged doesn't have to be ultra-processed
    via KBr_enthusiast
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    samus @beatrixsamus Replying to @SarahisCensored Lol doing the bare minimum does not make you a 'magic mom'
    via beatrixsamus
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    Courtney @crystalandqueue Replying to @SarahisCensored I'm pretty in between. I would allow one of these items in as a “treat”. (Not including the fruit). We rarely allow Cheetos or red dye items so that's like a once every other month kind of treat. Balance is key.
    via crystalandqueue
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    Kellyy❤ @bodhi_roots411 Replying to @SarahisCensored it s ks that these foods are made and marketed for kids, it sks that parents feel they have to rely on them, and its ks for the kid to live on a diet like this
    via bodhi_roots411
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    Pavel Chichikov @Nic_Notabene Replying to @SarahisCensored if they haven't already, the FDA should force these objects to no longer be classified as "foods" but as "consumables".
    via Nic_Notabene
  • 15
    Goth Hauswife @gothhauswife Ingredient household supremacy.
    via gothhauswife
  • 16
    E♡ @bass faerie okay i'm gonna bite. bragging about being mediocre is INSANE to me. idc if you send a lunch like this, it's none of my business. but bragging about it?? like why. just send the lunch and go. the post makes me think the mom feels guilty and is trying to feel better about it
    via bass_faerie
  • 17
    Kenz @SaltedKenzie Whilst I agree that we could definitely have less processed stuff & some other healthier alternatives, restriction can, & often does, lead to eating disorders. Different for every child obviously. But fed is better than not. Everything in moderation.
    via SaltedKenzie
  • 18
    Lana del Rey Academics @LDRCum Laude kinda crazy how people make up narratives in their mind to justify something they feel guilty of
    via LDRCumLaude
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    cow respecter @fleahaver I hated it at the time, but I'm so thankful that my mom did not feed me this junk. It wasn't even in the house
    via fleahaver
  • 20
    chaos robot @deestiv I need people to seriously chill a little bit about these snapshots of a single meal at a single point in time. Is this the best, healthiest lunch ever? No. Is it the only stuff this parent feeds their child? Also no.
    via deestiv
  • 21
    Logan @loganalogy Let's see... complete protein carbs oils fiber essential vitamins/minerals digestible sterile regulated/inspected supply chain tasty "Not good for kids," sure. But calling it "not food" is an Overton push untethered from history/reality.
    via loganalogy
  • 22
    Mangones @eatmangones And parents wonder why their children can't focus in class?
    via eatmangones

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