'If you wanted a proposal, you should’ve talked to me about it first': Girlfriend tells boyfriend she will plan something special for his birthday party, turns birthday into a marriage proposal

Everyone has a different way of celebrating their birthday. Some people go huge and have high expectations not only for their own event but for their loved one's commitment to them. Some people prefer a smaller celebration, and 'don't like to make a big deal about it.' Some people want lots of gifts, some people want no gifts. Some people want an intimate dinner, others want a huge blow out bash. Ultimately, though, birthdays are meant to be special, and everyone deserves to be celebrated in the way that they want.
 

When someone says that they are going to take the birthday planning off of your hands, it is the ultimate blessing. You trust that they'll make it into a night to remember, and you can't help but feel loved, seen, and heard. One man's girlfriend told him that she would do just that for his birthday, and he was over the moon. But in the middle of the party when the girlfriend's ulterior motives were revealed, this man didn't know what to think. So, read on, and decide whether this man has a deal-breaking situation on his hands or if his girlfriend's actions are something he can learn to forgive and forget.

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